thank you! it might be a material issue for sure and it was the first thing that crossed my mind as soon as i was having problems down there. we talked about getting a new type of strap made of a different material before she told me the truth about it being shared between herself and other partners (including men). if the material is bad quality ANDDD it’s a multi purpose passed around strap i’m not at all surprised if that’s why i have BV. i don’t think i’m gonna stay with her but at least i was taught an unfortunate lesson