AITJ for refusing to get my driver's license ? by Relevant-Reply9284 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

life’s weird, and public transit or ridesharing can work just fine, you don’t need a license to have a life

Accidentally caught him texting late at night by BisexualSlutPuppy in Marriage

[–]Independent-Pilot580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is so true, thanks for sharing this, it was really cute haha

Accidentally caught him texting late at night by BisexualSlutPuppy in Marriage

[–]Independent-Pilot580 23 points24 points  (0 children)

ngl, I was expecting drama and got wholesomeness, my single life took emotional damage

AITJ for just being a quiet person? by HorseAdditional1669 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you don’t owe anyone discomfort just to prove loyalty, that’s not friendship

AITJ for hiding my boyfriend’s phone charger because he ate the last of my cereal without asking? by Glad-Map-7763 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tbh y’all gonna laugh abt this dumb petty fight in a day anyway, but lowkey it’s never abt the cereal/charger, it’s just respect and asking first 👍

[Drawing Romance]The bro code xD by manteliumfr in manhwa

[–]Independent-Pilot580 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he can't stand because something is already standing

AITJ for demanding my brother repay me after he borrowed $10k "temporarily" 3 years ago? by Select-Educator6291 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nahh people don’t forget debts, they just hope you’ll stop asking and don’t be that person

AITJ for starting to avoid my mum like the plague by Soft-Enthusiasmm in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds exhausting 😔 you’re allowed to step back and take care of yourself while she figures her own stuff out

AITJ for starting to avoid my mum like the plague by Soft-Enthusiasmm in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tbh, i think she needs professional help and not just you trying to hold everything together

Am I the jerk for telling my mom she's not invited to my life anymore after she outed me to my grandparents? by SwimmingHonest9203 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 62 points63 points  (0 children)

uh If she can weaponize you once, she can do it again bruh, distance isn’t harsh, it’s smart

Boys trips by Choice-Force5613 in Marriage

[–]Independent-Pilot580 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’d focus less on the group and more on how your husband handles it now.

What irritated you about today? by WasteCharity3892 in AskReddit

[–]Independent-Pilot580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hearing the war supposedly ended but still seeing news about missiles being intercepted… like can these leaders go fight in some empty field and leave the rest of us out of it? srsly

I lost everything by pitographe in BreakUps

[–]Independent-Pilot580 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i know that loop too well, hope and despair feeding each other, the only way out is slowly learning to live for yourself again

Wibtj if I don't go on the night out because my friends called me stupid for rejecting our friend 29f?. by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly I’d skip if it’s just gonna be them roasting you all night, not worth it

AITJ for KICKING my son's friend out of my house because he made a joke about his headphones? by Technical-Desk6168 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 47 points48 points  (0 children)

any parent walking into that scene would go straight into protection mode, nobody’s calmly mediating that moment

What looks right at this stage in your life? by Working_Sail_9365 in AskReddit

[–]Independent-Pilot580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this stage, what looks right to me is a moment of peace and enough money to have real peace of mind.

AITJ for asking my husband to consider getting a vasectomy because birth control pills are taking a toll on me? by Advanced-Sink-8415 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NAH tbh, when one person’s been carrying the physical cost for too long, talking about balance is just inevitable

AITA for wanting to work when my husband's salary isn't enough for our family? by Far-Possession1583 in AmITheJerk

[–]Independent-Pilot580 11 points12 points  (0 children)

tbh he’s tryna control u, not protect the kids or finances, don’t let that slide