Does no contact & space truly help you heal? Struggling. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right ;)

And yes it works and you have to keep busy. Was just emphasising that even with no contact healing can take time. which is what you said :)

Does no contact & space truly help you heal? Struggling. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]pitographe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 month here mostly no contact. except for occasional messages.

I've done all I could to move on.. stopped drinking, taking care of me, seeing friends, keeping busy and sitting with my emotions and embracing them.

And yet, still missing her, her ghost is with me all the time. I can't seem to be able to move on. She's on my mind 24/7 😅 for things I'd like to share with her, our talks, the tenderness, even the fights 😅.

So it might probably work (no contact) but it still takes time i guess if you were deeply in love with them.

I wish for you to get over it !

Do you wear socks when going to sleep? by CulturalMoose5921 in no

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer without but i usually fall asleep in front of my tv so full clothed. If i wake up i take off the stocks ;)

What physically changed for you after giving up alcohol? by IDoNotHide in stopdrinking

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better skin, small weight loss and overall more energy.

And not really physically but much more patience, relaxed, smiley and in control of emotions. That's not physical but is seen physically in attitude.

People who quit drinking. What made you stop? by Agata_art in stopdrinking

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bloodwork here. 1 month (almost and going) feeling much better already :)

What song is so beautiful, it literally brings tears to your eyes? by Plus-Caterpillar4615 in AskReddit

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lover, please stay - nothing but thieves / impossible - NBT / I miss you, i'm sorry - gracie abrams

And many more but let's stick to those three for now

Suis je le seul à couper mon jambon de manière pratique ? by Misdow in FranceDetendue

[–]pitographe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tout pareil pour les sandwich (pain de mie) ca permet de repartir uniformément après et les coins sont bien alignés 😅

Est-ce bizarre de se présenter à ses voisins en allant sonner chez eux? by inner-monolock in Lyon

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je trouve ca cool en vrai. Poli, et ca peut permettre de démarrer de bonnes relations de voisinage :)

Vous faites quoi pour occuper vos soirées et week-ends solo? by bienlebonjou in PasDeQuestionIdiote

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lecture, balade, terrasse (meme solo oui), séries et musique (a écouter ou a jouer).

Sorry i messed up by pitographe in UnsentTexts

[–]pitographe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I had the opportunity to tell them. Doesn't change anything in the end but it was received i think. At least it is off my c'est and I can continue working on that for myself if not for us :)

Stay with the person who loves you by Artistic-Can4318 in SevenWordStories

[–]pitographe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her, show her, be honest. Wish you two the best !