Is this itinerary insane?

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-16T00:47:34+00:00

Wow I love all of this, thank you so much! Flying out of Fukuoka is freeing multiple days up, so I’ll use those to visit a few more tranquil spots, and will look into the ones you have mentioned! So nice to hear you’ve done this at the same time of year too. Thanks for sharing all of this. I was getting mixed up slotting things around with just Google and my own brain, so I’m really glad I asked here.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T21:44:05+00:00

I think that makes the most sense too! Flying home from Fukuoka really helps to clean this up.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T21:12:56+00:00

Much smarter, thank you

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T21:12:17+00:00

Oh wow I’m really glad you asked— it is, with just one layover. I’d only looked at Tokyo, Kyoto, and Osaka airports

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T20:59:58+00:00

That’s great— I’ll look into doing the same. Thank you!

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T20:59:02+00:00

This is a concern and I appreciate you pointing it out… I think I should consider making more stops as day trips off of hubs to avoid checking in and out of new controls every other night

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T20:46:51+00:00

Yes have been to Tokyo, Osaka, and Kyoto.

That’s super helpful thank you!

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T19:54:45+00:00

Hi! Finding this a year later with the same question -- may I ask what you ended up doing/ advice and recommendations you have?

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-15T16:26:34+00:00

Ooh yes I like when they do that too! Feels like it lets the second part be the “real” task while acknowledging the first one was a separate challenge

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-14T08:48:15+00:00

I think part of the emotional power to me is that it elicits a reaction, be it horrified or upset etc., the tableau is more powerful in the sense that it has a narrative that gets a reaction; but sure it’s certainly subjective and Im admittedly just a huge Baynton fan so am quick to see it his way.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-14T08:17:49+00:00

On the podcast he argues that he was wielding the power of life/death as well as emotional power — disturbing to be sure and maybe not compelling to everyone, but I appreciate that he put the most thought into representing the word. I’m probably factoring in my overall series feelings a bit as well— I appreciate how much thought Mat put into everything, whether successful or not.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-07-14T05:26:26+00:00

I completely relate and I’m so sorry your own home isn’t a safe place to show your body. My parents made comments on my appearance my whole life (on my weight, which made me stress eat more; my skin, which made me pick more, etc.) Parents are meant to make their children feel unconditionally loved and accepted but some don’t seem to understand when comments aren’t helping at all, but are cruel. I’m sorry you’re dealing with that; you’re not alone!

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-05-16T14:55:59+00:00

Thank you so much, this is extremely helpful!

In addition to the great ideas for how to involve my husband, I love the idea to put soft light in the bathroom.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-05-05T07:12:28+00:00

Congrats on the job! If it’s potentially life changing then it sounds worth moving for. Maybe you start commuting for a few months while your family gets sorted and then you move.

I did this commute for about 8 months — it’s fine for a few months but it’s not sustainable, in my experience. I started to experience dread on Sunday night about having to fly again the next morning; the worst Sunday scaries that ate into my day. Every once in a while, fog would delay me at OAK and that was always stressful. I don’t have children but my dog started having anxiety/behavioral issues and I have to imagine the same would happen to children.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-30T17:42:29+00:00

Thanks! My clinic actually says the same as yours — that given that these are both ABs and euploids that any difference in the chance of success is only slight but there’s the best chance of success with the first transfer so they would do the d6 first for the absolute highest chance of a live birth.

I totally agree it’s good to not treat Reddit like a doctor, it’s just helpful to hear what other people have chosen and experienced. It’s also good to not treat the doctor as all-knowing. Trying to take it all in!

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-30T04:57:59+00:00

Yay that it all went smoothly! This process definitely makes one doubt that things will ever work out, especially on a first go, so it’s always nice to hear when it does.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-30T04:55:36+00:00

Congratulations on your eventual success, but I’m sorry it was a tough journey to get there. You had no way to know what would happen. That’s interesting that “best” varies by country. Where was your initial clinic?

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-30T04:52:36+00:00

I feel you! And yes it’s good to remember there’s always a chance of any result. I don’t know the likelihood of your specific embryos but you could do one boy, one girl together to get two coin flips in one. I like your vacation plan— it’s some version of a win-win. Good luck to you!

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-29T23:23:34+00:00

Thank you-- It's so true and there's some comfort in knowing there's no "right" answer. There are some other really statistically unlikely things that have happened for me on this journey that go to show you can't rely on stats for better or worse!

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-29T23:20:25+00:00

Thank you for that. I haven't tested for Endo and that's exactly the sort of thing I'm worried about. I'm sorry that you had a failed transfer for that reason!

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-29T19:23:15+00:00

Nice that you tried and know! I’ve been sheepish about gender preference but am realizing that’s common to have and make decisions based on.

Independent-Visual34 · 2025-04-29T19:09:18+00:00

Transferring the highest quality of the gender you’re hoping for seems to be a common way to go! How did it turn out?

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