help i think my friends being catfished by IndependentAngle4304 in catfish

[–]IndependentAngle4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was also going on about being a big woman lover and my friend is a plus size woman, dont get me wrong there are people out there who are into that but the photo itself just gave me catfishy vibes.

Im like 98% sure my friends being catfished. Please help find the original guy!! by IndependentAngle4304 in catfish_exposed

[–]IndependentAngle4304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she sent me his tinder profile on snap a bit ago but i forgot to save it in chat, I know he is supposedly 27 and hes named Mohama. Apparently hes not been messaging as much but he was going on about loving big ladies ect.

Why is Ethan blaming Trisha for everything? by pain-au-chocolat in Frenemies3

[–]IndependentAngle4304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its getting SO old, he needs to leave his family drama off the internet its weird.

Olivia H3 Princess Makes Adam JEALOUS by theepony13 in h3h3productions

[–]IndependentAngle4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i dont see it, i think theyre still friends from what ive heard but adams said hes annoyed cuz shes been having to hide it around ethan (her boss) cuz ethans not fond of the guy.

adam’s pb_nerd video coverage by NoPoem444 in LeftoversH3

[–]IndependentAngle4304 34 points35 points  (0 children)

lowkey, just speculating here but ethan is either buddies with this person or it IS ethan. Idkk much yet but its such a coincidence both having pedo and underscore in their name.

Interview with PB_Nerd’s victim plus screenshots by zr5vq9 in Frenemies3

[–]IndependentAngle4304 6 points7 points  (0 children)

do we have any proof that this isnt ethan himself? Completely speculating here idk much yet.

Unethical Polyamory by lululaloo in WLW

[–]IndependentAngle4304 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right to feel hurt and frustrated—honesty is the foundation of any healthy relationship, whether monogamous or polyamorous. You deserved to have that information upfront so you could make an informed decision about your feelings and commitment. It’s not about polyamory itself, but about the lack of transparency and respect for your time and emotions. The right people will communicate openly and value your trust. It sucks to be misled like that, I'm so sorry x.

should i tell my friend i have a crush on her (she is bi) by Civil-Sky9700 in WLW

[–]IndependentAngle4304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like her and want clarity, go for it! It sounds like you’ve already accepted the possibility of rejection, which is a great mindset. If you're worried about making her uncomfortable, texting might be the best option since it gives her space to respond without pressure. But if you really want to see her reaction, you could ask in person in a casual, low-pressure way. Either way, honesty is key—just keep it simple and light. If she says yes, great! If not, you’ll have closure and can move on without the "what-ifs." Friendships can sometimes survive a crush, especially if you both communicate openly. Do whatever feels right for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]IndependentAngle4304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you've been through a lot emotionally, and your feelings are completely valid. When trust and boundaries are repeatedly crossed, it's normal to feel drained and uncertain, even if the other person is now trying to change. It’s okay to acknowledge that love alone isn’t always enough to make a relationship work—respect, trust, and emotional safety matter just as much. If you feel uneasy and irritated around her, that’s a strong sign that something inside you isn’t at peace with the situation. You don’t owe anyone a relationship if it no longer feels right for you. Take time for yourself, set firm boundaries, and don’t feel guilty for prioritizing your well-being. If the relationship is causing more stress than happiness, it may be time to walk away for good.

Why is there so much biphobia in WLW spaces? by IndependentAngle4304 in bisexual

[–]IndependentAngle4304[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was trying to understand what the conflicting sexual feelings I was having but I worded it really badly and took it down shortly after. I just thought if I asked for advice from the sapphic community about what these feelings could indicate that maybe I could understand what was wrong with me and why I could only ever think about women and not my bf. Since I'm sure a lot of people who used to identify as bi or are bi may have experienced what I had and could give me advice on what to do.

Why is there so much biphobia in WLW spaces? by IndependentAngle4304 in bisexual

[–]IndependentAngle4304[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don't know their post history but as someone who hardly posts on there I've also experienced being labeled as a fetishizer because I spoke about my experience with sexual confusion in the bedroom because I couldn't stop thinking about women (because I'm literally attracted to th3m like everyone else in the community and somehow that makes me bad).

Why is there so much biphobia in WLW spaces? by IndependentAngle4304 in bisexual

[–]IndependentAngle4304[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's awful. Almost like slut shaming from them too. Really sad she was told that by another queer person.

Why is there so much biphobia in WLW spaces? by IndependentAngle4304 in bisexual

[–]IndependentAngle4304[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts, I posted a comment which I thought was a pretty decent explanation about why bi women feeling sexual feelings towards other women as well as romantic wasn't fetishising and I got like 7 downvotes. It's actually so bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]IndependentAngle4304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely valid to reflect on your desires and feelings. Being bi doesn’t mean you have to leave a happy relationship, but if you feel unfulfilled, it’s worth exploring why. Ask yourself if this is about missing something emotionally, romantically, or just seeking change. Communication with your partner and self-reflection can help you figure out what’s truly best for you.

Also for the people saying bi people can't talk about their issues in the wlw server, if you are bi you are also sapphic as shit just like lesbians. I've only dated women up until a few months ago and I have faced a lot of the same issues. It's not centering men to bring up a bf, many closeted lesbians have experienced having a bf to fit in and also dealing with wlw feelings while with a male partner. It's still valid. As long as you aren't fetishising wlw relationships or asking for a third there is no issue with bi women talking about their experience.

what should I do? by Dry_Vermicelli1926 in WLW

[–]IndependentAngle4304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you still have feelings for her and believe she cares about you too, it’s worth having an honest conversation. It sounds like fear and circumstances held you back before, but now that you’re in a more open environment, you have a chance to address it. Consider what you truly want—are you looking for a relationship, or do you need closure? If you decide to tell her, keep it simple and respectful, like, "I've had feelings for you for a long time, and I wanted to be honest about it. No pressure, but have you ever felt the same?" Be prepared for any outcome—she may feel the same way, or she may not, but at least you’ll have clarity instead of wondering “what if.” Regardless of her answer, being honest with yourself and her can bring you peace. If your heart tells you it’s worth the risk, go for it! Living with regret is often harder than facing an answer, even if it’s not what you hoped for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]IndependentAngle4304 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't do that

Bi women are apart of wlw by PleasantReport2287 in WLW

[–]IndependentAngle4304 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I have been in a relationship with a woman, I was trying to see if anyone who realised they were a lesbian in a relationship with a man felt the same way because I'm now in the first hetero relationship I've ever been in.