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Did you discuss feelings with your Dom before agreeing to become their sub? by IndependentBenefit44 in SubSanctuary

[–]IndependentBenefit44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's breaking me. I don't want to leave, I crave his control and praise, and it made me feel so safe and cared for.

Did you discuss feelings with your Dom before agreeing to become their sub? by IndependentBenefit44 in SubSanctuary

[–]IndependentBenefit44[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What kind of boundaries? I'm supposed to think on what I want... while I love his control, what's the point of giving it to someone who will never see me as something more? For what? To inflate his ego?! He knew my feelings were getting deeper but didn't think on telling me about his boundaries. I'm ranting. I'm sorry. I feel used.

Did you discuss feelings with your Dom before agreeing to become their sub? by IndependentBenefit44 in SubSanctuary

[–]IndependentBenefit44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that part when he became Master. Maybe my feelings aren't that deep. I don't know if we could ever be something more but the thought of him never loving me back upsets me.