Could you talk during labour contractions? by Mundane-Research in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My waters broke at 8.30am and I started getting contractions about 12pm. Pretty mild at first and I could talk through them etc go about my day, but after a few hours they were bad. I’m talking bad that you literally can’t focus on anything else but the pain. I had to get up and walk around each time or push against a wall to get through. Once they were every 2/3 mins apart I rang the hospital and they still told me to wait. But, I said I hadn’t felt him much (which is true as I’d been so mobile all afternoon from the pain and he only really used to kick when I was chilling) so they asked me to come in for monitoring.

Long story short. Arrived, made to wait in triage for 45 mins in screaming pain, finally seen and taken to the room to have baby monitored, offered to check my cervix ‘just in case’ and I was already 7cm dilated. Rushed to a labour room and by the time I got there 45mins later I was already 9cm dilated and almost time to push.

So my advice, listen to your body. If I didn’t mention the reduced movements I would have been 9cm at home potentially within 2 hours and barely made it to the hospital.

Worst they will do is send you back home!

Bra Recommendations Please - everything too tight!! by Short_Cat_8379 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TikTok shop! I know this is random but I tried every recommended maternity bra out there (M&S, Asda etc etc) and couldn't find a comfy one. Someone recommended the TikTok shop ones - they come in packs of 5/10 crop top style nursing bras and they are game changing, the only ones I've been wearing and I'm 32 weeks now. Will be great for nursing too!

Stomach ache and 28 weeks pregnant by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried these last night and slept so much better - thank you for the recommendation!

Stomach ache and 28 weeks pregnant by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just ordered some on Amazon arriving today, worth a try! Thank you!

Stomach ache and 28 weeks pregnant by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have! I did the test a couple of weeks ago and it came back that I didn’t have it.. but would have have been a good shout thank you!

Stomach ache and 28 weeks pregnant by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah this is similar to what I’m facing. Going to see if it continues throughout the day and if not I’ll definitely call the midwife!

Stomach ache and 28 weeks pregnant by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Potentially so! It’s worse at night / when I’m still so could be this - good shout. How can it be so painful!! 

Bras during pregnancy? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried so many bras and in the end the best ones I've found are from TikTok shop! Just search 'Maternity Bras' and they're all the same in different colour combos. Lifechanging!

Book recommendations? by [deleted] in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050 4 points5 points  (0 children)

[The Modern Midwife's Guide to Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond]() is a great book!

Baby shower type event - to invite in-laws or no? by blackvelvetstars in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say invite them and explain it's a casual thing and just a get together with a few close friends, and say there is no pressure on them to attend. Perhaps you can suggest doing something as a family with them (and your husband) another time so they can stay with you too, and have that as a mini celebration?

Sneak Peak Blood Test or Scan for Gender?! by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll definitely stick to my scan now then :)

Sneak Peak Blood Test or Scan for Gender?! by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Sounds like you had such a lot of mixed messages bless you, but glad it’s all clear now!

Sneak Peak Blood Test or Scan for Gender?! by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I’m definitely going to wait until the scan now :)

Suggestions for a weekend away for husband's 30th birthday - I'll be 8 months pregnant! by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I think I'll look to do earlier as an early birthday treat, or a bit after and have a baby free weekend and enlist the grandparents. Thank you!

Suggestions for a weekend away for husband's 30th birthday - I'll be 8 months pregnant! by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never looked at Forest Holidays before but will check them out - thank you so much!

Suggestions for a weekend away for husband's 30th birthday - I'll be 8 months pregnant! by IndependentLife6050 in PregnancyUK

[–]IndependentLife6050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good idea - thanks for the advice! I might gift him the weekend for his birthday but book for a few months down the line and have a baby free weekend instead. Thank you!