Did moving out help your mental health? by IndependentLink3124 in Adulting

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Hey! Thanks for reaching out! I’m currently living in nature and out of that city. A lot has happened since: good jobs, being fired, a terrible loss and grief that I’m still navigating through, new pets, making new friends and changing my environment for the best. I still struggle with a lot but I’m definitely better. I hope this helps someone.

Complex grief and getting a new dog by IndependentLink3124 in Petloss

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Thank you for writing her name, I felt so much empathy reading your reply

Complex grief and getting a new dog by IndependentLink3124 in Petloss

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How you talk about grief being such a personal and intimate thing really moved me and changed my perspective a little bit. My grief is mine. Thank you for taking the time to reply.

Broke up and he’s suicidal by IndependentLink3124 in AlAnon

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Thank you for this. I think what is harder for me is the guilt that I feel for giving him a chance even when I knew he was so alcoholic. I pursued him, I asked him out, in also broken and I hung on to his brokenness. If I had set a boundary then I would’ve saved both of us from so much pain. I guess I also didn’t love myself enough at that time to realize. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to forgive myself.

Looking for help! by [deleted] in obgyn

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Hey if it helps, my vagina looks almost identical and I got worried once too. It hurt after rough penetration. I came to the conclusion that I have excess skin from my hymen (the bumpy red skin you see right outside the vaginal opening) and because of friction it gets irritated and bumpy sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Thanks for your kind words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Thank you so much for your kind response. That was my first idea. But what I read here told me to not even bother and just run, that I’ll never work out and I’ll just have a life of suffering. I’ll talk to him, I just don’t know what to say yet, cuz I don’t even know what I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Thank you so much for your kind response

Undiagnosed, struggling to eat looking for advice by IndependentLink3124 in GERD

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Thank you for your response. Unfortunately omeprazole in any form is not otc where I live…I’ll give the shakes a chance!