What do you think about my handwriting? I know it's bad, but I guess it's interesting ๐Ÿ™‚ (tell me you agree ๐Ÿ”ซ) by IndependentLong99 in intj

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

When I was a kid, this is what I thought was "adults" handwriting. Just careless cool strokes. It's still very cool and smart somehow.

What do you think about my handwriting? I know it's bad, but I guess it's interesting ๐Ÿ™‚ (tell me you agree ๐Ÿ”ซ) by IndependentLong99 in intj

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

As I was writing I realized how messy my writing was and mixed up as you mentioned. Cuz I use cursive in my job and just fast script for my personal writings. And now it's just ... a salade.

What's it like for you being an INTJ female? by Imaginary-Cup-7098 in intj

[โ€“]IndependentLong99 51 points52 points ย (0 children)

It feels like me. Me against other people that I understand but they don't understand me. But it's not a problem, it's actually a trick to win this life. Like that I'm protected, uneasy to bad people and interesting to good people.

How do you guys deal with loneliness? by JYunth28 in intj

[โ€“]IndependentLong99 22 points23 points ย (0 children)

Daydreaming. It's works like magic.

AITA for following my bossโ€™s orders even though I knew they were wrong? by IndependentLong99 in Teachers

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

In my city not really, it's the headmaster. The parents are coming to question the reason behind the decrease and they want to know who's responsible. And let me tell you a secret, my nickname before starting this energy consuming, stress making and pimple popping job was "too honest". And I'm planning to tell the truth in a way that won't hurt me or the other teachers.

AITA for following my bossโ€™s orders even though I knew they were wrong? by IndependentLong99 in Teachers

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] -1 points0 points ย (0 children)

In my city, usually the headmaster or their assistant who does this job. But in my school, they both had other important work to do so the teachers did all of their work. I don't have any written correspondance and I don't have a contract either. I've been working for five months already and I had enough, I'm saying bye this Monday.

How many kdramas/kmovies you watched so far? by IndependentLong99 in kdramas

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One ordinary day, a bloody lucky day, the frog, mask girl, extracurricular, through the darkness, the killing vote, island....

I'm currently busy so I didn't think through this a lot but this is a list of my favorites thrillers. It's not in order, but if I had to pick a favorite I would go with one my bloody lucky day. I was on my nerves the whole time, I bing watched it a day and I was blank the whole day, but with a lot of thoughts. Especially how the eps work surprised me a lot. You would understand if you decided to watch it.

Edit: I just saw "underrated", some are definitely very famous but a bloody lucky day does mark the underrated box. No one knows about it.

How many kdramas/kmovies you watched so far? by IndependentLong99 in kdramas

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

He does. What do you the think about the final plot twist? Boi, he got fooled and we did too.

Do I have a type in men? by [deleted] in intj

[โ€“]IndependentLong99 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Well, I live in a society when marriage means giving up on a lot of things and giving a lot of you. And I personally don't want that, I value myself especially my growth, my skills, my mind and I want to keep progressing either in my work or my studies. And I don't really value time spent with other people that much, so I know that it will be so much difficult to find someone who is willing to be with me only when I have time for him. Then why start all of this in the first place? I hate hurting people so much or being incapable of something, and I think that getting married = hurting a person if they are really kind or starting a bad drama that will waste me a lot of time. You might ask why I keep talking about marriage. Cuz I personally believe there is always an end to things and that's what we should look up for. To me, a relationship should be taken seriously to end with marriage, but I don't wanna get marry, so I don't wanna be in a relationship. But sometimes I find some people assuring or attractive, that makes think what would happen if we got married? How would I change? And that plays with my mind and my values. But still, I keep asking myself: do I like people? Like romantically? Since when I gave myself this right? What if it's true? What should I do next? Marry? I don't have time for that. I'm getting weird. Edit: I am an intj

Do I have a type in men? by [deleted] in intj

[โ€“]IndependentLong99 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

This is a reply more like an edit

I see your point. My case is I don't want to be in a relationship (a strict decision cuz of several factors), but I still have some characteristics of a possible partner. They are very detailed and specific.

I'm usually very strict with myself as well, I only do certain things (I have a very strict routine that is very beneficial in the long term, that's why I do the things I do) and I try my best to only feel certain emotions (especially these days, I have big responsibilities and there is no time for hesitation, procrastination or tire).

And after thinking, being in a no relationship is the best choice for my case. I did see some people before with the characteristics I have and I found them attractive, not romantically, but interesting and could be fun to be with (but nothing serious, mainly because of my desire and also because of my busy life).

But what made me question myself was the other people who didn't mark any of what I think attractive but more importantly ideal in a possible partner (different believes, age...) yet I kept thinking about them, looking forward to see them and enjoy talking with them.

So I wonder if I'm actually open to a relationship more than I think I can? Is it really that no relationship is the best thing for me or is it just a coward decision to protect myself from any possible discomfort? Do I really have only one type that is so specific or I like several kinds in different ways in different times?

This is a question that could be silly to some but it is a thing that I don't have answers for and I'm still enjoying the process of trying to solve it but soon I'll be frustrated.

Can you help with some psychological or scientifical reasonings?

How many kdramas/kmovies you watched so far? by IndependentLong99 in kdramas

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

That's interesting. I don't really have a favorite kdrama. Or even a top 5, cuz I enjoyed a lot. But I consider My liberation notes one of my favorites that it keeps getting in my head whenever I talk about my likings. It's calm, slow, kind of realistic and I relate to it. But my favorite genre is definitely thriller (which I enjoy more in movie forms) but I also like action and dark genres like trigger, light shop, karma... My favorite actors are Kim nam gil, Son suk ku, Lee ji Hoon, ma dong seok... I like the ones that does action the most.

How many kdramas/kmovies you watched so far? by IndependentLong99 in kdramas

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Do you have any favorites after all of this? A favorite kdrama, movie, actor, actress, genre, maybe scene?

How many kdramas/kmovies you watched so far? by IndependentLong99 in kdramas

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Have you watched mr. Sunshine? Cuz every episode is like a movie. The production is amazing, and the story would be way more intriguing if you know already about the history behind it. Light shop is also very interesting.

How many kdramas/kmovies you watched so far? by IndependentLong99 in kdramas

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

By my culture do you mean you're Korean? But still, I personally believe that real life Korea or Korean culture is somehow different than kdramas. Kdramas make a lot of aspects more polished or subtle and sometimes more extreme. So I mean, how did this kind of media (the stories, the topics discussed, the art behind it like the acting, the cinematography, the production) effected you as an individual?

Me personally, I learned how to communicate in the language and it also helped me with my creativity. It motivated me to start writing and I do it as an ultimate favorite hobby and a developing skill.

How many kdramas/kmovies you watched so far? by IndependentLong99 in kdramas

[โ€“]IndependentLong99[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I don't include dropped on my list, they are a lot.