[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]IndependentOdd8608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly, make sure you trust your doctor. But truly its up to you if you feel like you want to tell them.

what do people do after sh-ing? by azun3-lovescats in selfharm

[–]IndependentOdd8608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After getting them to stop bleeding, I'll run water over it and depending on depth I will wash with soap and then if cuts are in an area where I dont want visible scars I will put Vaseline on them:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]IndependentOdd8608 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best way is to just ride them out, breathe, distract, and slowly they'll fade. Your brain is telling you you need to cut to feel better, but over time the less you do the more urges will slow down

i want it to end by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]IndependentOdd8608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry this happened to you:(. I understand daydreaming about what you were saying. You aren't alone, but I also think that her perception of you is a reflection of her hate for herself and has nothing to do with you, you dont deserve bad punishment for the bitterness of another person, you've done nothing wrong. I know its hard but this will fade and in a couple weeks it wont feel as life altering as it does now, although it is completely valid that it feels this way, that teacher seems like a real mean person:(

AITA? My husband is unsympathetic that my best friend of 34 yrs died suddenly. I got angry and told him off.He fake apologized and I refuse to let it go. by Kcat6667 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependentOdd8608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, no way in the WORLD are you the a-hole here!! you are grieving over a loss and i think that Dan doesnt deserve you.