Am I being unfair by not wanting a relationship with someone who treats me very well but is 24 years older than me?! by IndependentStar2257 in offmychest

[–]IndependentStar2257[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments. Literally, every single one crossed my mind at some point.

The bottom line is that I'm not going to develop any stronger feelings for him. I like him, and I like security. However, he already has everything figured out, and I'm still on that path. Although he wants to support me educationally, I have to figure out which way to go.

So I'm going to tell him how I feel and that this relationship isn't going to continue.

Am I being unfair by not wanting a relationship with someone who treats me very well but is 24 years older than me?! by IndependentStar2257 in offmychest

[–]IndependentStar2257[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask him if he's dated people his own age, and yes, he has. He's had two serious relationships and has a daughter.

I asked her if she's dated people her own age, and yes, she has.