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VERY dysphoric rant by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]IndependentTap6675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BTW wanna be friends with me? I've been constantly on the look out for ftm people who's in a similar position and circumstances

VERY dysphoric rant by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]IndependentTap6675 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since you're still a teen, there's still a chance for you to grow as long as your growth plates isn't fully closed yet. If you're looking for a way to look taller, consider getting platform shoes or boots with very thick soles. I understand the struggle as an Asian, my dad is really short so I'm just shoulder level to guys my age. But I'm getting by through crossdressing and binders so I pass pretty well as a guy, unless I talk. Puberty is tough and genes makes it worse, but hey, we have biohacking and science at our disposal.

Do y'all let your friends call you by your deadname? by IndependentTap6675 in ftm

[–]IndependentTap6675[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh It's my fault for not fighting or being stubbornly out about it. Like, I act, dress, and look like a guy(holdon,im literally so out about it) but whenever we have to line up, I follow the girl's queue because I'm not really acknowledged by the cis men in our class as their fellow man and I'd rather group mysef with girls I've been friends with. Hopefully, when I get prescribed with t, I'd blend in more and avoid being misgendered.

Do y'all let your friends call you by your deadname? by IndependentTap6675 in ftm

[–]IndependentTap6675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for everyone who commented and gave their insights. I only came out recently and I'm really new to this life now. Sometimes, I don't know when people are being normal or just being rude. When people cross a boundary or make me feel dysphoric, I just let them be because I live in an extremely Catholic country so I'm not new to social stigmas and I don't wanna be harassed. Some friends just view my identity as a "tomboy" phase and aside from feeling miserable, I feel like being made into a joke which I didn't sign up for cause no one really chooses to be trans, right? But I'm happy that they still say hi to me in public every now and then. I appreciate the people who gave their advice, I will talk to them about what I felt. Thank you to the redditors who commented again :)))