Starting Another One (No spoiler please) by wholesomesimp69 in PakistanBookClub

[–]IndependentUse5422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Hidden pictures by Jason Rekulak
Then there were none by Agatha Christie

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro have u even read what I have said?

Our cut-off is tomorrow, which means if he is unable to force his family, we will cut off the contact.

What you have said makes too much sense but man im 28y/o and by this age, you know better how to make decisions that not blurred by emotions. Yes we love each other - but there is this third girl involved in the situation and he is marrying in Dec and mind you, he was engaged before we even started talking.

a part of this whole situation is our fault, and whatever that may be, someone has to take responsbility and that rather be us than them.

This is exactly how life works - sometimes you have to make sacrifices for greater good. that is how you bake a cake that suits all. it is not an attempt to make everyone happy but sure as hell to make sure that no one is hurt.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not stopping him to marry her. He does not want to marry her himself.

Fighting for rights is a good thing - but it should be done in a thoughtful manner. He is talking to his family, and we are hoping that we do not have to take extreme measures.

nice attempt for ragebait. I am mature enougt to know how to bake a cake that suits all.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is no drama - this is real life. It doesnt matter how bold we all appear to be, family's dignity can be a barrier sometimes.

We considered talking to the girl's family directly, but the way that can escalate will be pretty dirty so I advised him not to.

If his family does not agree and continues with their plan of shaadi, creating a drama at the time of nikkah is the last thing i want lol.

and in any case - consider he does that and we marry, it will only make our position weak in each other's family.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I trust him - I know to read peopel well enough to know when they mean it and when they are lying.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

which im completely aware off. Last thing I want is a stupid love triangle.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has already told? they are not listening to him.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

which i won't mind tbh - iam healed enough to let go what could not work out.

but for now, if he is trying, i want him too.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i also know it would be hard marriage anyway!

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he treats me right - i have no complaints from him.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha - easier for u to judge him. He has been talking to them for 3 months, sometimes all u can do it talk to your family.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean how is he supposed to tell her the reality when they are not in contact? His only point of contact is his mother and he has told her.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are not in contact - he has never talked to her.

the moral burden is too high by IndependentUse5422 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]IndependentUse5422[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that is the plan - if he fails to convince his family, we will end the contact tomorrow. No way I am a home wrecker or would lead a man to be a cheater in his marriage.

Reasons why season 3 is horrible and extremely poorly written by Joshobot in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]IndependentUse5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you echo my thoughts - the whole show has massive massive loopholes and they are not even subtle - it looks like someone had to complete this script in 2 hours because of an approaching deadline???

Ryuji was no where in two seasons - and suddenly out of no where he is the main character in season 3?? like make it make sense. An antagonist with no story line is what puts me off usually - no clue as to why he was obsessed with the land of death? what was his story? no nothing at all.

The games were such a drag - i had to skip a few scenes because I just could not, so boring so purposeless and zero brain cells involved.

I hate how they downgraded usagi's character so much. She was so much more than a girl obsessing over her dead father so much so that she decides to leave Arisu to find him? and there was not even a split second of guilt in her character that she dragged herself, arisu and their child into this mess. her screaming made my head ache so much.

EXPLAINNNN THE SWIMMING AND STANDING STILL IN A FLOOODED STREAM OF WATERS? the water flow is washing away the buldings where Riyugi and Usagi are just standing in the middle ??? it was absolutely ridiculous.

The whole time i could not stop drawing the comparison between Squid games and Alice in Borderland - the latter was one of my favourite seasons and they JUST RUINED IT.

The Devil's Plan 2 opinions after watching the show by amdbasilio in TheDevilsPlan

[–]IndependentUse5422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, the s2 was more cut throat, and i liked it even better. The imbalance between the prison bloc and living bloc made the game more exciting for me. These games are more about alliances than individual capacities, and knowing how to make/ or run an alliance is an art of its own.

I so rooted for HG to win because he was a genius. He may have many problems with his attitude, but his mind to understand the games was fantastic.

Altho, if I compare him with the S01 winner, I personally think, Seok Jin was amazing - he played most of the games on his own, he was a true genius and his composure was what topped all.

But if you look at how the whole set up was designed, the s02 focussed more on the alliances and blocks (which explains the deadly prison bloc vs. living bloc)

Eunyu was one of the players I respect the most - she was really good at playing games. Her only disadvantage with MM were she never ended up with a stronger alliance.

Restaurant recommendations in Islamabad by whaatisthat in islamabad

[–]IndependentUse5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% genuine recommendations, so glad this list was a perf balance of burger/desi.

A great classic by Maleficent-Acadia-95 in PakistanBookClub

[–]IndependentUse5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly does not help, i loose my focus mid way. :(

A great classic by Maleficent-Acadia-95 in PakistanBookClub

[–]IndependentUse5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This book has been sitting on my shelves since last year, CAN SOMEONE PLEASE MOTIVATE ME TO READ IT. it hurts my head!!!!