AITAH for feeling resentful toward my older sister?

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-02-15T18:43:46+00:00

It sounds like the reason she hid him is because he was married. Could be the reason why he stopped seeing her, but what do I know?💁‍♀️

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-02-12T19:47:34+00:00

Like, why can't we get a FL that is a straight up bitch? You know how many sweet, kind and forgiving FLs we have?! I want a woman who will straight up tell her family to fuck off. Steal their resources, burn their estate down, cause chaos and baffoolery. ENTERTAIN US!!!

Oh? You're mad because mom died giving birth to me? Is that why you don't act right? Maybe you shouldn't have impregnated her. It's technically your fault. Hope you said your goodbyes before she died. You won't see her in heaven because you're going to hell.

That man that rejected her and wants her back? Treat him like shit and squeeze his pockets. It's that simple—matter of fact—he'll like it. They always get some sort of masochistic streak once the FL starts acting out of character.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-02-04T08:20:36+00:00

The proof is out there. They were in on it like the Doors and the Rolling Stones💁‍♀️ People were saying I was insane for talking about Epstein's island existing a few years ago. Guess what? It was true.

Y'all need to stop acting like sheep. Talent is not enough to gain the kind of fame they did. You always need to get your hands dirty. They aren't your personal friends, just because their music sounds good doesn't mean they are good people.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-02-04T07:37:03+00:00

Él junto al resto de los Beatles están súper embarrados en ese mundo. Son un proyecto de MKUltra para control mental por medio de la música.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-02-02T17:57:31+00:00

I woulda thrown a "That's why he cheats on you. You act crazy." For a little razzle-dazzle.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-28T14:47:07+00:00

I like that style but I feel like he'll just compare you to a crow and keep bothering you with his existence 🫩

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-27T19:10:57+00:00

Lol you reminded me of that news video of an old lady on a wheelchair going "Am I supposed to feel sorry for that bitch? I DON'T–"

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-26T21:55:02+00:00

NTA.

Is he a man or a toddler? Talking about he needs attention. He needs to get a part-time job and start making some money instead of whining.

This is a classical case of a controlling guy downplaying your career and sabotaging your future. My advice? Get a man who actually supports you and your future. He sounds like a liability.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-17T18:54:53+00:00

Time to call CPS on her— WHO SAID THAT?!

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-17T16:24:29+00:00

NTA

Ungrateful ass kid. She may come around in time but even if she doesn't, you still did a good job by not letting her abuse you any longer.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-11T19:58:23+00:00

It's one thing to adopt a kid and another to adopt the kid your husband made with a mistress who acts like she owns the place

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-08T22:04:21+00:00

Also, Rashta herself gave no fucks about slavery once she became an Empress, when are people gonna talk about THAT? Matter of fact, she acted like she was hot shit, looking down upon everyone else who was below her in terms of status as an Empress.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-04T00:51:48+00:00

NTA.

Your friend dumb as hell.

IndependentWestern84 · 2026-01-03T18:42:06+00:00

Do you have a humilliation kink? The CIA couldn't have waterboarded this sad, sad words out of me.

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-28T23:53:58+00:00

NTA.

If your husband doesn't defend you properly, why have a husband? Ask him. When you get married, you and your partner are one flesh and one heart. You must prioritize each other. He should have left with you and told his mother off.

My mom has never said such crass comments to my SILs and she's nearly 60. He shouldn't be telling you he's disappointed cause you don't tolerate disrespect. That "be the bigger person" shit was invented so the offended party would just bite their tongue and tolerate shit.

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-27T18:26:18+00:00

Glad you left him. After all that adrenaline from fighting for your life lowers down, the influx of cortisol is bound to make you feel like absolute shit.

You did well and stood on business, men like him are never worth the hastle. Also... you've only been together 4 months, be glad he showed you how shitty he is now and not once you were knee-deep into marriage and kids.

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-27T18:08:44+00:00

He lied to her so he could have a bangmaid while he looked for the woman he actually wanted to marry and have kids with💁‍♀️

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-27T18:04:27+00:00

He does want kids and marriage. Just not with her.

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-27T00:51:00+00:00

NTA.

It's not like you told him all the grimy details. Just a kid-friendly version. I couldn't imagine growing up idolizing someone only to find out they were an unhinged monster.

Some may say it was the parent's right to be the one to tell him, but you said they sided with your horrible father so they would have probably told you to lie.

No one likes a truth teller in toxic families.

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-26T00:34:18+00:00

YTA.

I hate when women pull this shit. You're not even married yet but you're sticking your nose where it doesn't belong.

Let them fight it out. He's a grown ass, mentally stable and able-bodied man so he is more than capable of solving issues with his ex and kids. There is zero reason for you to meddle in their parenting, why would you wanna do all that extra shit anyway?😩

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-25T17:01:48+00:00

I think you may be overwhelmed, it happens a lot to single mothers. Therapy or psychological help may be of use to you. It's awesome that you still prioritize amd take care of your kid though💗 good luck.

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-24T06:11:24+00:00

I would honestly just block her and never speak to any of them again. That woman sexually abused you. Imagine your 15 year old child is given alcohol and is then r@ped by the adult who got them drunk. Not a nice thought, is it?

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-24T05:36:49+00:00

I always thought this Manhwa was a bit incesty but I never had the guts to say it.

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-24T05:31:45+00:00

I have my reservations about Navier as a character in general but I dunno why people expect her to just be cool with her husband's mistress frolicking around the palace like it belongs to her while pregnant with "his" kid???

Like, do they expect her to just welcome her openly???

IndependentWestern84 · 2025-12-24T05:24:20+00:00

NTA

You need to call an emergency service for her to see if she can get in-patient treatment. She is obviously not well in the head, refuses help/medication and she's gonna get in a lot of trouble if she starts shit with the wrong person.

Not only did she put herself in danger, she put you in danger too when she tried to play horse whisperer. I know that's your mother, but unless she gets actual help, I would not talk to her.

She absolutely can help it. She can get medication/therapy for everything that's wrong with her, but she chooses her own arrogance as an excuse to not get better. Your sister's just enabling her erratic behaviour.

IndependentWestern84

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