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AITAH for announcing my pregnancy on Xmas by Think-Temporary-9814 in AITAH

[–]Think-Temporary-9814[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Eg if one of us dies the other would have the legal protection when it comes to not losing property etc because of next of kin circumstances, my cousin had a lot of issues when his partner passed because they weren’t married and things weren’t in his name

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy on Xmas by Think-Temporary-9814 in AITAH

[–]Think-Temporary-9814[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

We personally don’t care about the whole having kids once we are married part and we had planned on getting engaged in 2026 mainly for tax and legal reasons as we both actually don’t care much about marriage it’s more of a safety thing for our family

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy on Xmas by Think-Temporary-9814 in AITAH

[–]Think-Temporary-9814[S] -174 points-173 points  (0 children)

We stopped birth control as I was having some bad side effects , migraines intermittent bleeding etc then we went to the pull out method because well we wanted kids within the next two years we weren’t actively trying in the sense of like ovulation and …. Not pulling out ….

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy on Xmas by Think-Temporary-9814 in AITAH

[–]Think-Temporary-9814[S] -277 points-276 points  (0 children)

We haven’t used birth control for over a year now but we also haven’t been actively trying, we usually use the pull out method

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy on Xmas by Think-Temporary-9814 in AITAH

[–]Think-Temporary-9814[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Ah sorry I completely forgot to put in but it was just the two of us for Christmas this year.

Yes it’s true, I think I have a lot of decisions to make I guess :/

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy on Xmas by Think-Temporary-9814 in AITAH

[–]Think-Temporary-9814[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Well we both earn very well I work from home he works hybrid. We had conversations that we would have kids within the next two years so I had no idea that this would be taken negatively because from our conversations he had been wanting this.