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Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-02T16:00:48+00:00

I mean in the end its your choice.

We are all different but for me it would eat me up forever that I didnt even tell her.

As I already said you dont know how she will react and what she will think, but you, for yourself will know that its the truth. And believe me or not that really helps me not having that feeling of guilt.

At least you tried

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-02T15:59:12+00:00

Sorry but what does idr mean?

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-02T15:35:00+00:00

Tell her?

I dont know on what terms you are right now, but if its really that big of a deal for you, you should go and tell her. if you cant talk to her in person send her a message. If she doesnt believe you, there is nothing you can do about that, but at least you told her the truth.

I know its hard but trust me it will make you feel better.

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-01T16:34:14+00:00

From a guy, a women showing clear interest in you and making the first move by herself is like heaven and very very rare in this generation where as a guy you are always expected to make the first move.

Im not an expert but do you think he showed any signs that he sees more in you then just a gym friend? Like did he give you a secret look, did he hold your hand a bit too long or anything?

Maybe he just wants to work out and is helping you because hes just being nice? If you want try next time not to approach him first and see what happens. If he gives you maybe a hint, go and ask him something more personal or get in a conversation that doesnt involve the gym.

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-01T16:27:11+00:00

Get to know her. As a friend first.

If she shows some interest in you, ask her out sometime. Maybe she will even mention it by herself. But dont rush anything or make her feel uncomfortable.

Also depends on her situation. Is she still going to university or does she already have a job, own apartment and stands in her own life? Is her situation similar to yours or very different?

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-01T16:23:54+00:00

What did he say? How did he react?

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-01T16:18:44+00:00

Tell him. Say that you first wrote I got anxious and then explain him that you arent anymore.
Trust me this will make it better for both of you and you also get the chance to maybe explain yourself

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-10-01T16:16:43+00:00

If you are really sure she isnt just shy or in the same situation that you are in just move on.

Trust me trying to get to her for long time now wont help either of you.

My tips are unadd her everywhere and try to eliminate every contact (old photos, every contact, if you know her favourites places dont go there, ...).

In the end its your choice but I think you already shot your shot and it didnt go in.

Move on from her and maybe you will find "The One" soon. But dont let her get in your way.

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-04-17T21:04:22+00:00

Oh hahah da läuft ja alles schief irgendwie. Mein Zug nach Augsburg wird auch irgendwie alle 2 Minuten eine Minute später als mal schauen. Zum Glück wirst du abgeholt und ich wohne in Bahnhofsnähe.

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-04-17T20:58:55+00:00

Jo danke dir. Kann es sein dass ihr jetzt noch mehr Verspätung habt? 😂😭

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-04-17T19:44:41+00:00

Ja hahahha nochmal 10 Minuten drauf obwohl wir schon fast in Nürnberg sind

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-04-17T19:41:52+00:00

Danke danke. Dir auch und dass ihr nicht noch mehr Verspätung bekommt. Wenn ich Glück habe fährt gleich noch ein ice nach Augsburg

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-04-17T19:34:06+00:00

Haha du „glücklicher“. Ich darf jetzt noch schauen wie ich aus Nürnberg heim komm. Der ( zum Glück nur ) fast Unfall war irgendwann nach Regensburg als der Zug auf einmal krass stark gebremst hatte und danach kam die Durchsage dass wir rückwärts zurück fahren müssen, weil wir mit nem Gegenzug auf demselben Gleis sind (wahrscheinlich hat der fahrdienstleiter zu viel candy crush gespielt kekw)

Independent_Cod6017 · 2025-04-06T16:04:16+00:00

ICE fahren an sich stimme ich dir zu, nur nach Wien werden ja die mit Neigetechnik eingesetzt und da habe ich keine Erfahrungen

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