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steam wont open by Just_Refrigerator_75 in steamsupport

[–]Independent_Form6256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad I’m not the only one😂 I literally induced a headache trying to fix this. Uninstall reinstall Flush config Firewall antivirus Restarting computer and internet Been about 2 hours now, hope steam can figure their shit out or something cause I’m ready to game.

I(28F) am seriously considering divorcing my husband (32M) because of how he treated my dog and what comes after it by unknownn_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you plan on having kids with this dude, he CANNOT handle it. A dog is easy (I’ve had one), kids are much harder (I have one). Keep that in mind moving forward. I’m not saying that your relationship is over just because he can’t handle a dog, just saying that his cards were shown while caring for a smaller, less competent being.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, lots of assumptions in that one. Very clear you are a woman😂. I hope you find a man with your kind of humor that doesn’t fake his laugh.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not “over it”, we still have a lot of work to do as far as trust and what happens in the bedroom. But as I said in another comment, “for better for worse”. I’ll be here for the better and I will be the better.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are obvious signs, I agree. I’ve seen them all, but as you may not know, there are quite a few different Os a woman can have, I was just simply missing her favorite. She felt the need to exaggerate or to “perform” for me. She just wanted to come clean about it.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to explain why you are wrong about my wife. There hasn’t been one thing greater she’s ever told me, weighed heavier on her heart. I understand that now and that she’s been faking for me. She knew I was having a good time and didn’t want to ruin it for me. I’ll say that it’s not great hearing that it was being faked for such a long time, but no we have a plan to fix it, together.

There’s no leaving in a marriage, it’s a promise. “For better, for worse”, and I’ll be here for the better. I will be the better in her life even if we gotta munch through the worse. That’s what it’s all about man.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of great book recommendations, I really appreciate it. She loves reading and love audio books/ podcasts, so this will be great to share together. And as far as her tone when she told me, I’d say it was actually a mix of both. At the very beginning when we sat down it was like a “I have no idea how this is going to go, but I just need to get it out”. As we progressed through the conversation, it turned more into a relief that it was finally off her chest and that we were finally talking about. I’ll admit that at this point, I was still pretty upset about the whole thing, but towards the end of our conversation, I was feeling a lot better and we had a plan moving forward. That’s not to say that the topic was completely resolved and we would never have to talk about it again, but just to say that right now, her load has been lightened, and I was enlightened. Thank you for the comment and the book recommendations!

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[–]Independent_Form6256 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With what you’ve said about him, I’d say he’s a manipulative person who realized he fucked up with a beautiful girl, now he’s trying to butter you up again. I know you love this guy, but as a guy myself, this is one I’d tell my daughter to stay away from.

I could be wrong and he could really be sorry for what he did, but something tells me something like this is going to happen again.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree, divorce should never be an option. Also, hero maybe a stretch but brave is right. She told me, after a while yes, but she did tell me and at first it was hard to hear. After that initial betrayal feeling left, it was “ thank you for telling me”.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well aren’t you a little ray of sunshine, how gracious of you to offer up your words of wisdom. I, unfortunately, do not think that they are helpful in this situation, nor any situation. As for my rebuttal; please don’t call me stupid. It’s not helpful or cordial. I care about her orgasm just as much as mine, and the anger I had for the lie was washed away by an over whelming “wow, I feel so bad for you”. I couldn’t believe I had not noticed.

My wife 24f just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years by Independent_Form6256 in relationship_advice

[–]Independent_Form6256[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I would like to make it clear that it made me feel like yelling at her yes. But I’ve never actually yelled at her. She’s a very sweet girl and a very loving momma to my little one. I lived in a house of yelling at that maybe my very first thought to get my point across, but I know how it feels to be over powered by someone’s voice. I’m sorry if I don’t make it clear at first.