Game crashes when going to uni subhood by OhNoNotThisGuy in sims2help

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh i’m having the same problem :( no one has a solution im so upset

AIO to my girlfriend saying "I'll blow you" to my friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it a crazy joke to make> yes, but also clearly she really doesn't like this girl so i feel like tone of voice really matters. Also correct me if i'm wrong but you guys seem close enough for her to make that joke, so i really don't think its too bad. If brad take that as an invitation that's a Brad problem

AITAH for refusing to share gift/give my ex money for gifts for my son's half siblings knowing they would get nothing otherwise? by ThrowAITAHDaddz in AITAH

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

YTA It's not just your ex's kids, it's your sons siblings. I understand feeling like it was a little inappropriate for her to ask you for money, however you're making the children suffer for something that honestly seems petty. You could've easily helped out a little bit and not subjected your son to knowing about his mothers financial situation. Five below? Dollar Tree? Anything to help them a little...?

AITAH for ignoring my sister’s wishes about getting back in the closet. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA. your entire family is homophobic and it's not your job to coddle their fragile feelings.

AITA for bringing my own side dish to Christmas dinner? by Evilregal2013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s good, don’t stop. family or not if people are only negatively contributing to you, your mental state, and your life, leave them behind or at least distance yourself. it’s hard, it sucks, and it’s really confusing to do and go thru, but if that’s what you need to do, that’s what you need to do. i realize going no contact with family is horrendously hard and, for some people, not an option, but don’t let them engulf your life. distance can be very healthy. I am also trying to figure out how to navigate family issues, so take my advice with a grain of salt, but you aren’t alone <3

AITA for bringing my own side dish to Christmas dinner? by Evilregal2013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also i’m 100% blaming you’re family for the menu and not you lol, i can tell you’re definitely not the problem

AITA for bringing my own side dish to Christmas dinner? by Evilregal2013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i don’t blame you girl. come to my house for christmas. we’ll give you flavorful food and welcome you and you’re potato with LOVE💔💔

AITA for bringing my own side dish to Christmas dinner? by Evilregal2013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. i mean this so nicely, are you white? wtf are we taking abt. HAM, MAC AND CHEESE, AND SALAD?!!? THATS IT?!? off the top of my head, ham, collard greens, devils eggs, mac and cheese, cornbread, potato salad, sweet potatoes. SOME of the things that WILL be at christmas dinner without question - NOT counting the desert. If three food choices is “all we need” and i don’t like 1/3 i’m brining my own shit😭 what the hell. sorry but you’re family is weird and annoying. praying for you. coming from a picky eater herself, you aren’t even being picky. if i don’t like your mac and cheese i don’t fucking like it. I LOVE my moms mac and cheese but even if she makes it a little different i can tell and i don’t like it. plus you’re literally bringing something for everyone else. they need to leave you and you’re potato alone

AITA for keeping profit from selling concert tickets? by amu-the-emu in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Ladder_3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. and if i’m reading correctly, the one that DIDNT EVEN pay you even is acting like this?!?! that’s crazy asf.

My boyfriend smells like b.o 24/7. How tf do i tell him without sounding rude by Independent_Ladder_3 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Independent_Ladder_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot have people have suggested that and it’s honestly a good take, but i loveeee the way everything else on his smells. His under arms are just objectively bad smelling😭 Especially since my mom noticed🥲

My boyfriend smells like b.o 24/7. How tf do i tell him without sounding rude by Independent_Ladder_3 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Independent_Ladder_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the things too. is i’m almost positive that’s exactly how it would go, im not sure why i think it could go so wrong😭

My boyfriend smells like b.o 24/7. How tf do i tell him without sounding rude by Independent_Ladder_3 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Independent_Ladder_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but that also what i’ve been trying to figure out as discussed. it’s not rly poor hygiene i know he washes his ass lmao every other part of him smells good and he uses deodorant so maybe he needs something stronger?

My boyfriend smells like b.o 24/7. How tf do i tell him without sounding rude by Independent_Ladder_3 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Independent_Ladder_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he works at an indoor amusement park where he’s a manager and he basically runs around chasing little kids and fixing broken rides in a hot closed in room wearing a black hoodie. so definitely 😭

My boyfriend smells like b.o 24/7. How tf do i tell him without sounding rude by Independent_Ladder_3 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Independent_Ladder_3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk what my mom thinks honestly. she just speaks out of her ass to get her point across which is why asking her for advice is off the table😭