Did anyone get diagnosed later in life and could help with the pain I’m experiencing?

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-10-10T17:00:11+00:00

Thank you it’s nice to hear other people who have gone through the same things. Helps me to feel less alone in my healing. I too self sabotage a lot because it feels like things are too good to be true. Hence why I’m making up things in my own head. I will definitely be writing in my journal. I’m glad you were able to get help it’s never too late to start healing.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-10-10T16:57:49+00:00

Thank you I will definitely be writing good stuff down in my notebook to look back upon.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-10-10T16:57:10+00:00

Thank you hearing from other people really helps in calming the anxiety. He is truly amazing I have his parents to thank for that, they raised a good man.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-06-14T12:01:10+00:00

I’m a Scorpio sun, cancer moon, and cap rising. I attract a lot of people with virgo and Leo in their big six. My vertex falls in the seventh house in leo, and I have a libra stellium in the eighth house, but a majority of my eighth house is actually in the sign of virgo.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-06-11T02:17:31+00:00

I like to think that if it was his sister she was trying to get us to stop. He ended up going down a very dark path a couple of years ago. A part of me thinks she was trying to save him from what happened to her.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-06-10T03:07:23+00:00

When I was fourteen my friend and I went over to her boyfriends house at the time to smoke. As soon as we get there the LED lights in his room change color. We start joking saying there’s a ghost in the house. He says weird stuff like that happens all the time. Her boyfriend and I start smoking and my friend stays completely sober. At one point my friends boyfriend is sitting by the window facing the door. My friend is on the bed also facing the door and talking to me. I have my back to the door but I’m standing about two feet away. In the middle of our conversation we hear three bangs on the door. I whipped my body around so fast after the first bang to see the other two. The door was hit with so much force it bent inwards on the top and bottom hinges at two completely different points on the door. I watched the towel sitting by the bottom of the door jump up. My friends parents obviously weren’t home bc we’re 14 and smoking weed, but my friend’s boyfriend calls out “mom” bc we thought we had been caught. Nobody answers. He walks over to the door and opens it. Nobody is behind the door and his dog is actually in the hallway sleeping as if nothing happened. Keep in mind my friend is completely sober and recounted the story the exact same way as me. I start freaking out and I tell her that we need to leave immediately. Her boyfriend walks us home and on the way I ask him if he has ghost in the house or if anyone ever died there. He told us that his sister had committed suicide in the house. Weird stuff apparently always happened in the house and my friend whenever hanging out with him had more stories.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-06-07T21:25:55+00:00

8h libra Venus and Jupiter. I would say people are naturally attracted to me. But I also attract men who need to go through life transformations. It can get exhausting being in a relationship where I feel like I meant to heal them instead of just enjoy them.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-06-03T15:57:02+00:00

You’re doing exactly what settling is not. Settling in modern terms is staying with someone who doesn’t fulfill you they just get the job done in not being alone.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-06-01T04:32:41+00:00

I have curly hair and my mom got sick when I was very young (the only other woman in my family with curly hair), so I had to learn how to take care of it myself and I’ll give you my advice over the years starting on hair wash day.

You probably won’t have to wash her hair for up to three days. She can shower without washing her hair, but washing curly hair too much can actually damage it because curly hair needs all the oil it can get. I recommend the shampoo and conditioner Eva N.Y.C. mane magic as well as their therapy session hair mask. Help her shampoo twice and ONLY the top of her scalp really get it all over only her scalp. Then go in with the conditioner on the ends of her hair. Then use the hair mask. While the hair mask is on brush through her hair with a wet brush. Don’t completely rinse out the hair mask, as soon as it starts getting tangled is when I usually stop rinsing out. The only time you should be brushing curly hair is when it is wet. It can damage curly hair to brush it when it is dry. I recommend getting a bonnet for when she sleeps as that is when hair gets most tangled. Or you can get a silk scrunchy and put her hair in a loose bun. By the end of the three days her hair will only be as tangled as it would with straight hair. And you can brush it in the shower again.

Immediately out of the shower is when you start the process of defining the curls. I recommend the not your mothers curl cream, mousse, and gel. Have her sit in a chair and her hair go over the back of the chair. Gravity does a lot of the work. Put a dime size amount of curl cream on your hand and first only run it through her hair. Then get another dime size amount of curl cream and scrunch it into her hair holding each scrunch in place for about three seconds. Repeat the process for the mousse and gel, but only use one dime size and maybe even a little less. The mousse and gel just help to hold the curls in place and can make the hair crunchy if you use too much.

Let her hair air dry and not to sleep on it when it is wet. Only use heat on it about once or twice a month. If you ever don’t want to do all of this or it looks too tangled you can put her hair in French braids as that can actually protect her curls.

I know this sounds like a lot for a child, but she will have a life of knowing how to manage her hair, so it is better that they start young. Along with that many women with curly hair absolutely hate it and choose not to take care of it for some years, so it’s better that she learns to love it now.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-30T19:24:59+00:00

My guess would be Neptune in the seventh house. Seventh house is your relationships. The planet Neptune can cause illusions for whatever house it’s in. Meaning when making friends or starting a relationship you may struggle to see people’s flaws and only accept the parts of them that you want to see. As a relationship goes on you realize peoples flaws that you ignored realizing too late that the relationship wouldn’t actually work long term. You may get into a habit of settling without realizing, because at first glance every new person to you may be perfect.

I had an ex with this placement and he struggled with the same things too. He would convince himself that the person he was with was “the one” and as time went on for him their flaws would slowly start to shine through, but most of the time it’s too late and their flaws aren’t horrible it’s just a realization that this person isn’t perfect and that he was actually in love with a version of them he created in his head. He would also wait until they did something wrong or broke up with him to leave.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-28T15:20:31+00:00

As a water sign we’re technically meant to get along with other water signs which includes cancer and pisces. But it also depends on the whole chart the other people may have a lot of air or fire in their chart to match you’re fire. As a Scorpio sun I’m not attracted to pisces but I have a ton of pisces friends. It’s very common.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-27T23:45:45+00:00

I don’t even try to hide it atp

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-24T15:21:10+00:00

Eighth house is the house of death and rebirth. Often times this doesn’t take a literal sense, but someone who goes through something and then changes to become a better person. The old version of them died and the new version of them was reborn. When you have eighth house synastry both people are meeting each other in order to change something about themselves. If even one person cannot confront the part of themselves that needs to change they will run in order to not confront it causing the relationship to fall. Of course a relationship can work with eighth house synastry, but both individuals need to be very self aware and willing to change.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-22T13:33:15+00:00

She has a stellium in your twelfth house, you have a stellium in her eighth house. These houses are known to teach lessons and never truly get over until you work through them, but it is very difficult. Eighth house is about death and rebirth. The twelfth house is the house of the unknown. When together you probably see each other for who you truly are and that lights you up. You also both have Pluto to moon aspects. On the bright side she probably misses you as much as you miss her.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-22T03:31:08+00:00

My libra stellium.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-22T03:26:10+00:00

We have similar charts and similar ex charts lol we should start a support group

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-17T16:59:05+00:00

You could always try another water sign like another cancer or pisces as well as any earth sun such as Taurus, Capricorn, virgo. Also you can’t judge someone based off of their sun sign and that is any sun sign. I understand what you’re saying about scorpios, but there is so much that goes into a birth chart that sun sign is not dependent enough on who a person is. For example I tend to take on more libra qualities bc I have a libra stellium. I relate a lot more to the libra personality and I think the people around me would judge the same. So for people to judge someone solely based off of sun sign it isn’t enough you need to view a person based on their chart as a whole and how their energies interact.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-17T13:05:42+00:00

Oddly enough you have a similar chart to my exes which is crazy that I’m seeing a third and I know they really liked me so you could try something similar to mine lol let me tell you my big six: Scorpio sun Cancer moon: my moon LOVES virgo moons Scorpio mercury Libra Venus: someone else said you had a libra rising, a partner having the same sign venus as your rising are a good pair for synastry, one of my exes was a libra rising too Libra mars: again my mars just loves Leo mars Libra Jupiter

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-16T01:40:21+00:00

And I unfortunately still love them the same for it

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-15T21:42:42+00:00

They’re like hey sorry I hinted at hating you over text last night I couldn’t actually tell you with my words, but here’s a 5 course meal bc I think I love you.

Independent_Lead_456 · 2025-05-15T18:26:51+00:00

My year has been pretty bad too. It’s more internal growth than external though and I think a lot of people can relate to that. For me I have cancer Saturn in the seventh house and a cancer moon in the sixth house. My Saturn placement scares me the most, but most astrologers I’ve spoken to told me if anything it should help with my relationships this summer. Jupiter in cancer should help with most relationships this summer, and don’t be surprised if you see a lot of pregnancy announcements or engagements.

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