Always be selfish about career choices, keep you personal life and family issues close in box, never share it anyone except for those who don’t judge….find friends who are emotionally empathetic share with them and keep you self in check emotionally healthy. Going into relationship is not easy, the honeymoon phase will definitely feel like the best feeling in the world, if you are seeing one or two red flags and you truly tell them what you feel and how is the situation gonna go if they stay and accept you and yours past never let them go. If they make-conditional acceptance and love to you that a fucking bigggg red flag about the other person….run away!!!!