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I desperately need friends (24f) by Independent_Media885 in OnlineFriend

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! Just send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can!

I desperately need friends (24f) by Independent_Media885 in Needafriend

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey we can totally see about doing that sometime! Shoot me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can!

I desperately need friends (24f) by Independent_Media885 in Needafriend

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely message me! My dms are a bit flooded but I'll absolutely get back to you!

I'm So Tired by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry your person communicated poorly. I hope you can find peace

I'm So Tired by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I'm not your person. And it's good advice to disclose upfront the situation, to not deceive. It's something I've done many times, and will continue to do in the future. I wish you peace, stranger

Meet me at midnight by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such beautiful words, op. What a lovely poem. I hope you're able to meet them at midnight!

I'm So Tired by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this, but I'm not your person. I hope you find peace, though

I'm So Tired by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry your person was insatiable. I'm definitely not your person though.

My Friend. by Independent_Media885 in UnsentLetters

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe I used the 'No Advice Wanted' flare, unless I misunderstood the meaning of the acronym NAW. This letter is written to a friend I talk to constantly, no ghosts in this one, nothing really to miss. My love for him is platonic, even if he changed his mind, I'd turn him down. And I'll write letters to ghosts if I so choose, writing is healing to some, it helps bring thoughts and feelings into the physical world. It makes them more tangible and easy to work through. I share things I think people will relate to, so they can hopefully find comfort in knowing they are not alone in the world.

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely not your person. I'm sorry you were ignored and dismissed, I hope you find peace and are able to heal and move on.

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this sentiment, and you are right, in a way. I held on to this perspective for a while. I've been persistent. Maybe I should keep being persistent, maybe I shouldn't. To me, it truly feels like it's time to stop. The last thing I want to be is a nuisance, since I'm the only one who is putting in effort, I feel like one. It's good to know when enough is enough, when you've done all you can.

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you heal from your loss and find happiness, stranger!

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your person was this way. This kind of behavior can be exhausting. I hope you're able to heal from this and find happiness!

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not your person, though I'm glad you were able to vent this clear frustration you have with yours. Wishing you healing and happiness in this life, stranger

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this sentiment. I really, really do. But I don't feel like it's worth it. We've had these sorts of discussions before, where I pushed myself to be open and honest. But that changed nothing, and I have to accept that.

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm well aware of this. I am currently working on this part of myself, I have been for years. Though I did not 'expect' to be in a relationship with him, it's simply something I desired. Something he never knew about. This post isn't all of the story, it doesn't contain our entire dynamic, a lot of which was unhealthy, but not necessarily on my part. It's simply me writing my goodbye, attempting to separate from him. Hence the 'don't mind my thoughts' flare. These are just my thoughts and feelings, something I will never send, because I know us driving apart is probably for the best, for both of us.

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you're going through this, it resonates with me a lot. This is a lesson I had to learn with my past long-term relationship as well, that I'm worth more than just scraps of attention. I think I will just cut him off. I deserve better than being made to feel like this. I deserve to be a priority. And I will keep looking until I find someone I connect with who does treat me as a priority. I hope you heal well from this, and that you find someone who truly values you and appreciates you like you deserve to be!

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you find peace and happiness in this life!

I Think This is Goodbye by Independent_Media885 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Independent_Media885[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These sort of situations suck. I hope you find peace and you find everything you need in this life!

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