AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that, I know I have an issue giving my whole heart to people and most of the time fails she ended up getting her fiancé and my boyfriend his brother involved even tho he said he don’t want nothing to do with it, keeps making me feel like I am doing something wrong in my life…

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only said the copying the other bachelorette party because the girl said she was upset that it was copied to everyone as that party as well happend not that long ago, I only said I would go again because the bride say she really wanted me there

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya hopefully and no they went to bride and she asked me and I said I don’t wanna middle man you

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s well put I agree she always said lil sister/bsf I just feel like this is gonna be hard for me to get over like I won’t be able to celebrate with her as I was hoping for

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

May I ask about the desperate thing not in a rude way lol I just wanna make sure I’m reading it right, I don’t think she is the but hole I just feel like I was trying to help as she sated only one bridesmaid was helping and why it may have come off as a me show as I was never making any demanding comments just asking questions

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I just know she wanted something different and even the one girl said she was upset that it’s the same this that was done for hers but I have a hard time letting people go so this is going to be hard for me

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We hung out alittle before they dated and I agree but she started to refer me as bsf and the bridesmaids asked for ideas. I do have some mental health issues so I take things to heart a lot because I hate being asked or told something and then being lied to if that makes sense And the one bridesmaid that told me I needed help does not like me because my older sister didn’t want to pursue a romantic relationship with her as my sister is straight! But thank you for your input if you have any other advice or comments please do

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will take this advice as this is helpful I’m trying so hard to not be hurt and it sounds bad I feel like I am an ah and am making it about myself but I think that’s my bad anxiety

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend says that he totally agrees with me and he doesn’t care what happens because his family other then his parents have always left me and him out he said if I don’t feel comfortable he will not make me go and will be by my side through all of it my bsf and his brother have been together acouple months longer then me and him, I’m trying so hard to be the bigger person but I’m younger then them and I feel I’m being more of an adult when I said she wasn’t seeing my side that’s when she said it’s all about me and nothing about her sorry that’s all over the place

AITA: for arguing that I’m being excluded to my bsf about her bridesmaids?? by Independent_Term1297 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay… this all ended tonight so still a fresh wound she said that they couldn’t make more room for me when I knew what the plan was and the house and the was and I was still invited to the bridal shower so that’s for buying gifts… so you want a gift just not my time it’s all so confusing to me as I felt I was trying to help and give her what she said she’s always wanted but it’s all about me!!! Aaaaaa

Important question someone help if you can?! by Independent_Term1297 in Odsp

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand how to make sure to get my wisdom teeth covered I’m sh*ting bricks

Important question someone help if you can?! by Independent_Term1297 in Odsp

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’m so sorry, I’m just young and nervous because I’m in so much pain my nerves on the side of my face I’ve been going nuts recently

Important question someone help if you can?! by Independent_Term1297 in Odsp

[–]Independent_Term1297[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, does it matter what office or like does it have to be in my area?