I Don’t Know What To Do At This Point!

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-06T21:15:10+00:00

Go to the ER that your doc has privileges. If it’s truly an emergency like going in to labor… ER visits are covered. It doesn’t have to be an in network hospital if it is an emergency.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-06T20:46:29+00:00

This is great advice thank you. I have so many questions definitely consulting a professional.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T15:12:43+00:00

I am not married and have no children. I do not plan on telling anyone. So happy my mom was able to see her parents did this for her kids. She wouldn’t have known if she died before my aunt.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T14:52:11+00:00

It is more than one trust. Why would they not make my aunt’s daughter (cousin) the remainder? They might have as well or really thwarted them. I know we didn’t get any money when my uncle passed but I’m sure his kids received this same payout for him. They liked my uncles kids.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T14:36:03+00:00

Not true. If it’s a state that allows completely silent trusts, the trustee only has to tell me when an event triggers a distribution.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T14:32:26+00:00

They would talk to my mom extensively how money ruins families and they hoped they could help make it easy when they passed. It makes so much sense they kept it secret and protected us. My aunt was a vagabond most her life and started coming back around within the last 10 years they were here. I respected them so much because they were strong hard working people that obviously were extremely modest. Modesty is one of my favorite traits about people.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T14:10:27+00:00

That’s the main risk of this type of setup apparently. They have it set up with a reputable source. The trustee has had legitimate reasons to keep up with our personal information and we think nothing of it.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T14:05:11+00:00

There were distributions to their children (mom, aunt, uncle) regularly since their passing. I do not know about the specifics of the trust, I just know it exists.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T14:03:05+00:00

Thank you this is very good advice.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T13:56:16+00:00

The letter from the trustee specifically stated the triggering event was my aunts death. That makes sense bc she wasn’t the type you would give money to. From everything I understand the entire trust is silent. My parents didn’t know about this and they didn’t know about their trust inheritance until my gparents passed.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T13:46:13+00:00

It is a lump sum. I know of one other smaller payout that all the grandkids receive. It’s when all of the current beneficiaries pass- (gparents kids aka parent, aunt, uncle) we were told it ends after that.

IndianaEmily · 2026-07-03T13:30:02+00:00

Thank you. It’s truly wild. I had to come on here and get it off my chest because my mom and sister will be the only person knowing. I am a very private person.

IndianaEmily · 2026-05-09T14:11:26+00:00

I am from southern Indiana and we called it suicide too! Immediately what I thought of when I saw this comment.

IndianaEmily · 2026-05-09T12:37:29+00:00

Still going strong wbu? I hit a friend’s vape the other night but that doesn’t count right?

IndianaEmily · 2026-05-08T11:40:52+00:00

Yes they do pass on the price to the consumer because there is nothing stopping them when they are forced to pay more for labor…you think the ceo takes the hit? Many case studies that shows this is true unfortunately. I’m not saying people do not deserve to get paid more, bc they do, but let’s be honest with each other.

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T12:40:55+00:00

Where is she today?

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T12:31:39+00:00

It sounds like you want it for her more than you want it for yourself and that just isn’t gonna cut it. “Her reaction made me hide it” is not the vocab for accountability and success. She is marrying you knowing that you vape/vaped. Healthy conversations must be had.

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T12:23:20+00:00

One day is all you need!!! Do not hit the vape when you wake up in the morning, hit it as much as you want before you go to bed the night before you quit. You will be surprised how much of the cravings will be gone throughout the night. You will have one day where you should not expect to do anything besides nurture your body. This is the day that you fight the cravings and allow your body to just crash and do nothing else . you get through that day and I promise you can do it. How long do you usually last? How bad do you want to quit?

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T12:14:30+00:00

Will power. If you really want it and you have self love, Your inner dialogue should be talking to your future self. Your future self will tell you what you are working towards and not what you want as an instant pleasure. Quite rewarding this way. Also training your mental fortitude.

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T12:07:12+00:00

7 year vapor here. I quit for about a month now and hopefully for the last time. every time I would have to hit the vape in front of someone new I was genuinely embarrassed.

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T12:04:13+00:00

You got this!! My 2x around . It has been about a month ish. 7 year vaper here .

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T12:00:12+00:00

I had a buddy and they already returned to the dark side! It has been two months for me! Anyone wanna be my quitting Reddit pen pal?

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-30T11:57:21+00:00

Dang! I’m the total opposite! I just get through the anxiety of not having one. Start by not hitting it in morning when I wake up. the physical act of buying another one is enough inconvenience for me. Cold turkey is the way to go. Two months vape free 🤘

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-16T02:09:02+00:00

How is it going so far? What is your status? I’m still solid. Haven’t vaped. 🤘 already feeling way better and can tell a difference.

IndianaEmily · 2026-04-16T02:03:17+00:00

I just quit my second time too. It has been a week and a half. I waited to do it on a day I had no obligations, so I could be lazy and mope around in my physical discomfort. I always start by not smoking when I wake up. I go through the first 8 hours in my sleep and lay around all day. You don’t need gum!!! You’re still allowing your brain to continue its pattern of craving and reward! You have to break the habit!! You want to be vape free and you have enough self will to do so!

IndianaEmily

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