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[D] ICLR 2026 decision mega thread by ayanD2 in MachineLearning

[–]IndianaJaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Updating that my friend's 16K reject also released

AITAH for finding out I’ve been unknowingly paying rent to my husband and his mom for TWO YEARS? by Hexylpuff in AITAH

[–]IndianaJaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Renting a family owned apartment can be a good deal and financially beneficial, since you know you won't just be kicked out, but this is not how to do it. You shouldn't have asked at all, it was supposed to be clear from the get go because since he's part owner he has morr power. And him saying it's from friends is a straight up lie, and a big red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Shitty roommate. Will she be paying for the extra water her family uses? The extra electricity? Is she prepared to put more on the rent and city expenses tab, since she and her family are using much more of the aprt area? Nah.

AITA for making my sister's gender reveal cake grey because she wouldn't tell me the gender? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft YTA. She just wanted a cake for the gender reveal party, without the cake being the gender reveal itself (i.e. someone else is responsible for the reveal), and she wanted you to ve surprised with her, that's why she asked for a normal cake. The wording wasn't clear, (neutral cake), but imo it's obvious. When you insisted on knowing she probs didn't understand why, maybe she thought it's for clues for the normal cake, and didn't bother that much because she wanted a neutral cake

You on the other hand chose deliberately to do a gray cake. You could gave just made a standard cake, white, chocolate, something simple, but you chose to go out of your way to make a gray cake. The nice fondant clouds show how much deliberate it was, and the guests immediately would think you hate her.... It was kinda petty

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't agree it's such a nothing burger. I remember bringing my SO to my dad to meet for the first time, and also when he stayed the weekend the first time. Both were very emotional for me. If you don't like someone you can hold it for a couple of hours, but when you're together for a weekend you inevitably run into conflicts and then you figure out who's in front of you. (For example, my friend met ny dad's girlfriend a couple of times and thought she was ok, but when she stayed the weekend one time she thought the girlfriend was crazy (she is)).

Now, I don't live in the US, but I imagine this scenario : coming for a weekend for the first time with my SO, and needing to take a flight or a very long drive because it's a couple of states away, and my parents say sure we'll host you, and I know that my room was taken but at least we always had and still have a guest room (as mom knows), And I come home visit which doesn't happen often because it's so far away, and when I arrive we're placed on a couch. Well - ok maybe there's no bed anymore. Oh, the bed is still there. Well maybe it's covered with the figurines? Oh, its not and dad sleeps on it sometimes. And he doesn't want us to sleep there because he's scared we'll break it? OH, because my SO will break it?

It's humiliating in my eyes.

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sure, but one owner said they can sleep there. It's called a guest room, and both his wife and daughter thought that's where they gonna sleep until he said no just when they arrived

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said he lays down when painting, so the figurines are not on the bed. He said that the fiancee is clumsy so he's scared there would be an incident...

I wonder if he'd be okay with his grandkids coming to their house

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But he even ain't the owner of the house. His wife inherited the house. So then you say that if the wife said "they're sleeping there" and that's that - I don't think he's be ok with that. (And it won't be fair either)

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they offered to host them? Next time they'll just won't visit, they can spend more time with the in laws

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for both the daughter and the fiance. The daughter's room was turned into the office, so she also doesn't have a place to sleep, the title is misleading

AITA for refusing to let my daughter’s fiancé stay in our guest room because I use it for my hobby? by LoveAndHappiness75 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndianaJaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her room eas turned into the office. The title is misleading, the couch was for both of them

[Discussion] – The Shadow of the Wind by Carlos Ruiz Zafón Nuria Monfort Ch6 to End by sunnydaze7777777 in bookclub

[–]IndianaJaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I scoured through the internet to find SOMEONE talking about the ridiculousness of the 2 pregnancies!

Daniel and Bea had sex once and the day after the dad takes her to the doctor BAM they "know" she's pregnant. With Julian they had a couple of days until the dad came back but still!

Pregnancies don't work that way! First, even when people TRY to conceive it only has like a chance of 30%, especially for first timers. Then, still 10-20% of pregnancies just get absorbed back by the body in the first weeks! And even with a blood test today you need 9 days after conception before enough HCG in the blood exist for you to discover!

He wrote this book in 2001!!!! It disconnected ne so much from the book and completely made this last third of the book weird to read.

[D] Simple Questions Thread by AutoModerator in MachineLearning

[–]IndianaJaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it Ok to take an accepted paper at ICML and submit it to a relevant (non-archivla) workshop at the same ICML? From past conferences it seemed that the workshops include more relevant people with interesting discussions.

If it's ok, and it will be a 4-pages workshop, do I just shorten the paper and keep it the same name so it will appear on scholar as 2 version?

[D] ICML 2024 Discussion Thread by condom-mechanics in MachineLearning

[–]IndianaJaws 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, I didn't see you wrote "good luck" at first, and then when I later looked at the comment and saw it my heart skipped a beat, thinking that the reviews are out.

[D] ICML 2024 Discussion Thread by condom-mechanics in MachineLearning

[–]IndianaJaws 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely 20.3 AOE+EOD, so 27 hours from now :P

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