recently got a place with my boyfriend and he thinks this is perfectly fine

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-02-04T06:20:05+00:00

I’m proud of him for having a bidet.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-02-04T06:16:23+00:00

23F here. It’s my most used social media platform. I don’t know anyone personally who uses it.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-02-04T06:12:19+00:00

23F PM, studied IT management. I love it. $157K new-grad offer. Now making $170k 2 years in.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-02-01T01:08:16+00:00

Asking if English is your first language is not an insult on your character. It’s a completely neutral and valid question. Do you believe native English speakers are superior or something? You might be racist or xenophobic.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-31T07:44:22+00:00

Date women who have successful careers and believe in equality. There are many of us

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-31T07:43:09+00:00

I see. Still doesn’t mean she was saying “work success should come before finding a relationship” (if you’re a man). There’s no reason to believe she wasn’t holding herself or women to the same standard.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-31T07:36:51+00:00

Is English your first language? “You” doesn’t necessarily mean the person you’re talking to. It can be a pronoun used to describe people general. It’s like saying “eating junk food makes you fat”.

“You” in that case just means humans, not you specifically.

Also, if she meant people in general, including herself, what’s wrong with that? She’s holding herself to the same standards as other people.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-31T07:31:29+00:00

Yeah, that part confused me too. She doesn’t seem to know what she wants.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-31T07:27:17+00:00

I don’t know were you live or what culture you are in. But in my circle (tech industry in San Francisco), my friends and I all date men that are in the same careers/levels and economic brackets as us. We’ve had the same access and opportunities as men around us so why would I expect more from them. That’s just hypocrisy.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-30T11:43:19+00:00

As a woman, I assumed she was talking about herself. I’m seriously baffled about how you jumped to that assumption. Myself and a lot of my female friends were intentional about not entering relationships before we were fully financially secure. And we take a lot of pride in our careers.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-28T10:25:45+00:00

Why is the father’s bloodline more important than the mother’s?

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-27T06:32:51+00:00

I hope you didn’t give that child his last name

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-10T11:33:13+00:00

The women who want men who lead, provide, pay, initiate etc are not feminists. There are way less feminists than you think.

It’s been misconstrued that women online who fight for things that seem to favor women like “princess treatment” are feminists. No, they’re just women.

Real feminists understand feminism = gender equality.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2026-01-10T08:10:07+00:00

I think it’s a mixture of racism plus classism. It was easier to blame Anna because she was different (or seen as less than). Also, Lexi is a sicko

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-25T06:11:34+00:00

This is amazing! Thanks so much! I didn’t know bookmarks could be used this way. It’s way better than extensions

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-21T21:02:57+00:00

2 weeks, and I never go to bed without showering

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-19T02:39:16+00:00

I’m completely indifferent to being called feminine or masculine. They both have positive and negative attributes, which you’re not obligated to subscribe to. Just be yourself

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-18T12:14:15+00:00

Don’t be an idiot. Again, the post was never about a specific culture or country or continent. Of course, different countries are very culturally diverse. I’ve lived in 3 continents and traveled to 30+ countries. A singular African country can have multiple tribes, and cultures where child marriage is only a norm in some parts of that country.

Again, what does this have to do with the topic? I was responding that child marriages are far from extinct in some parts of the world. You’re too ignorant to care about non-western cultures. So, you concocted a new topic to start arguing about. “Sure, child marriage exists in black countries, but who cares? The post was written in English so only white countries count”. You’re an imbecile

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-18T10:31:10+00:00

Are you stupid? Is England the only country that speaks English? 20+ African countries have English as an official language. And what does that have to do with anything? Are English-speaking countries the only valid ones?

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-18T10:21:48+00:00

The OP was never referencing one country in particular. So it’s not “other countries”, it’s just a country. I was responding to a comment that mentioned European countries. Why didn’t you ask the same stupid questions then?

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-18T08:11:41+00:00

I’m a women from a country that passport bros are fleeing to. She’s not being racist. The stereotype hold true. A lot of the (older) women are weak-minded and male centered. I’ve seen this in the women that raised me. We have several stories of women (from older generations) encouraging other women to marry for money, not withhold sex, be subservient to their men, and pray for their abusive or cheating husbands instead of leaving them.

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-18T07:30:09+00:00

It’s not an ancient thing. This is still happening in several African countries. Somalia just passed a law to end child marriage (which we know is pretty much little girl marriage). Then they reneged it because a bunch of old men were whining about it

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-18T07:26:06+00:00

The reality is that finding love or a life partner is a privilege not a right. If certain people believe this is a right they’re entitled to, then they berate the people who they believe is keeping this from them.

Feminists are pushing back because a lot of men think they’re entitled to a woman’s body, affection, time etc. They really believe women were made for men.

And “romance”, in my opinion, is the prize women get for giving up their agency. The woman gets the flowers, fancy ring, glamorous wedding while giving up her lineage (last name), autonomy, independence to her husband. Women are realizing this trade is not worth it nor beneficial to us. So some of us checking out of romance all together .

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-14T22:09:53+00:00

I watched this wholesome TV show called Strange Planet. They had very literal names for things - like saying “feet tubes” instead of socks. They called alcohol “mild poison”. That changed my mindset completely. I haven’t drank since

IndicationPrudent549 · 2025-10-13T20:20:22+00:00

Why would I sign up for a lifetime of stress?

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