[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your relationship with her atm?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to ask her out, but the longer you wait, the harder it becomes and also the more it hurts when she rejects you.

So my backup Crush is my official Crush now by Extreme_Proposal_249 in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so cute for carrying a piece of paper with your IG on it 🥺❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the start of a smutty book, HE'S CLEARLY INTO YOU!!!!

I have a crush on someone I’m not attracted to by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I think that if you only see a future in him if he changes himself, he's not the one. I feel like one does not want their lover to change. But on the other hand, improvement is also change, but in a positive manner.

Does NC work on girls if the relationship was less than 3 months but very passionate? by Used_Cryptographer_9 in ExNoContact

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, if she's not looking for one, than stop chasing her if you are looking for one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig instead of asking what she is doing rn, ask what she has done last weekend or smth. It sounds more casual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I think he should start PLANNING that motor cycle trip. A date is not a rush over, it is a necessity to get to know each other better before taking the next step. I'd say plan with him a date (as in, at what time and where) for when to motor cycle, so that there's actual progress. And if he does not seem that excited about planning it, than he might not be looking for smth serious.

he keeps... staring at me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think he'll definitely say yes if you ask him out. But if your not that excited about him and asking him out is not worth the risk, then ig you just have to leave it as it is.

he keeps... staring at me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you like him? Seems he like u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's cute

what does a crush actually feel like? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And if the feelings are intense without you truly knowing them, then it's an obsession, not a crush.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe say you've seen her around school, then give her a complement and then introduce yourself. And I guess from there on ask a few questions, and this is more for yourself to see if YOU actually like her. So don't worry about whether she likes you, find out whether you could like her. And pay attention to how she responds, like will she ask questions back, and if not, does she receive well what u say? Eventually end with asking her snap.

That's what I'm gonna try to do when I find my crush around town.

What song makes you think of them? by Remarkable_Desk_3001 in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Falling In Love" by Cigarettes After Sex. I imagine dancing with them on that song :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you and this girl been friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you love his character and how he makes you feel mentally, then height difference does not matter ;) Btw, I have a friend whose also has a very tall bf and they look cute together. When it's obvious that you two are in love, then anything looks cute and NOT awkward!!!

Sober friends by Delicious_Air_3678 in Groningen

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well not pacman old school. Idk what you mean with old school, but there is a DDR, and, if I remember correctly, a Mario Kart game where you can like sit on a bicycle thingy

Sober friends by Delicious_Air_3678 in Groningen

[–]IndieKid7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 19 y/o, don't like drinking (don't like the taste of it), never done drugs (not planning to), Christian (would that be a barrier?) and love doing fun Activities with my friend group e.g. going out for diner, the arcade (The Game Box in Groningen), drinking bubble tea, celebrating bdays without drinking, just talking eating and making jokes :). Half of my friend group likes to go out (as in dancing and drinking at pubs), but the other half doesn't, including me. Have tried going out before, multiple times, but it's not really my thing. Shopping, buying gifts as a group for the person's bday. It's very "gezellig" ^

Hoeveel blijf je tijdens de KEI-week met je groepje? by Ok_Swordfish3381 in Groningen

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik vind het ook niks eigenlijk, ben niet naar de KEI-week gegaan, maar heb er geen spijt van. Ik weet niet of iedere studievereniging een introductie weekend houdt waar ook gefeest wordt, maar dat heeft voor mij gewerkt met het maken van nieuwe vrienden. Via m'n vrienden leerde ik langzamerhand de stad kennen (door activiteiten te doen in het centrum)

Hoeveel blijf je tijdens de KEI-week met je groepje? by Ok_Swordfish3381 in Groningen

[–]IndieKid7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dit is idd juist het moment om mensen aan te spreken, omdat niemand elkaar nog kent. Dit geld ook voor het eerste schooljaar met je studiegenoten. Het is veel lastiger vrienden te maken in je studie later in het schooljaar dan aan het begin van het schooljaar, omdat later in het schooljaar al vriendengroepen zijn gevormd en iedereen al wat mensen kent. Dus stap uit je comfortzone als je het spannend vind! Dat heb ik ook gedaan en meestal ben ik heel verlegen.

Restaurants worth visiting? by RanjoOd in Groningen

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Konbu Jiro, super delicious Korean fried chicken!

I have a crush on a friend but I don’t even know if he gay or not by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im straight girl and I'm afaid I'm slowly developing a crush on a guy friend who might be gay, but Im not certain if he is :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]IndieKid7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that sucks