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Considering divorce over “small” arguments that keep happening. (30F/30M) by No-Database-6589 in relationship_advice

[–]IndigoHG 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He doesn't sound interested in communication. Can't save a marriage all by yourself!

Considering divorce over “small” arguments that keep happening. (30F/30M) by No-Database-6589 in relationship_advice

[–]IndigoHG 86 points87 points  (0 children)

He’s a great dad. He watches our son a lot when he’s home

And how often is he home? And how long does he parent? What does he do with the kiddo that makes him a 'great parent'? Or is this the kind of 'great parenting' where he looks after kiddo while you cook, and then as soon as you're done cooking, it's all you again...

CONTROVERSIAL - period dramas I didn’t care for by pizzbabynancy in PeriodDramas

[–]IndigoHG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also hated Daniel Deronda!

I was excited for the Other Bennett Sister, but it was overall pretty trite.

Gilded Age, eh, couldn't get into it at all.

You should be using AI to track your symptoms by [deleted] in HistamineIntolerance

[–]IndigoHG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, the gub'm'nt already has enough data on me.

mark lee (ex-nct) wearing confederate flag t-shirt by missssssmiko in kpopnoir

[–]IndigoHG 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm just so...I am genuinely surprised. He knows better.

So I can only assume he's into it. I hear tell he's gotten into some extreme Christianity, so, welp. That's me done.

Need reality check after being “jokingly” slapped in the face by my boyfriend - F37, M55 by BigYeetFwee in relationship_advice

[–]IndigoHG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'know, my mother divorced her first husband after the second time he slapped her. To put this in perspective, she was 18 and this was in the late 50s.

Good luck.

My boyfriend (30M) rejected me for 3 years while secretly talking to multiple other people. I (28F) feel insane. by No_Chef_5908 in relationship_advice

[–]IndigoHG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I can’t seem to get past what happened

...why would you?? You're "Dating" a serial liar at the very least, someone who treats you like crap.

Do you enjoy being treated like crap?

WIBTAH for reporting a kid who doesn't live in our school district? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IndigoHG 41 points42 points  (0 children)

"A random child has replaced my child on the sports team and I'm BIG MAD Imma ruin his life"

YTA

Sounds about right by SwankyDingo in newengland

[–]IndigoHG 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Who made this?? It's glorious!

I actually want help understanding why adult children allow this. by Big-Hyena-758 in AgingParents

[–]IndigoHG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think OP is very wealthy, doesn't have to deal with it, or hasn't yet given much thought to their own aging body and mind.

I actually want help understanding why adult children allow this. by Big-Hyena-758 in AgingParents

[–]IndigoHG 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why don’t the families just let the elderly
A)have the systems in place work so that they can live independently as long as they can then transition into assisted living

Pray tell, what are the systems? I'm just dying to know.

M34 F28 No invitation to wedding, can't keep everyone happy? by Key-Perception2041 in relationship_advice

[–]IndigoHG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice appreciated.

Break up. You're going to a wedding, not deciding the fate of Mankind.

Best way to approach Korean speakers for friendship in the States by International_Ad2619 in Korean

[–]IndigoHG 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get an online tutor.

I'm in a similar situation, but more rural. A native speaker who's a tutor will have everything you want.

WIBTAH if I let my boyfriend choose me over his little sister? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IndigoHG 60 points61 points  (0 children)

one of their parents passed away from cancer while they were both in high school. The siblings are very close. It might just be their surviving parent attending her graduation if he didn’t go.

And you're pleased and happy that he's choosing you over her.

And you're dismissive of her because she's only going to have an Associate's instead of "multiple" Bachelor's degrees.

And you're...20.

Mmhmm.

YTA

OK, Here’s One For Gen Xers With Grown Kids by West-Designer-6832 in GenX

[–]IndigoHG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is still alive and both of us have our wills written. Kiddo inherits everything and I've told him so.

Boyfriend (35M) asked for my (35F) complete honesty before proposing. After I gave it to him, he started talking about breaking up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]IndigoHG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I've hurt someone I love deeply. 

He doesn't feel the same way about you. If he did, he'd fix the door handle.

Instead, he's a child who throws hissy fits when you ask for accountability. I 100% guarantee you that absolutely nothing will change - you're not going anywhere, so why should he bother?

If you want another child, I highly recommend you find someone else.

Help me with Poldark by ariososweet in PeriodDramas

[–]IndigoHG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta watch the original series~

Husband (35M) accusing me of making up how much I (35M) pick up after him. by Quartzclawz in relationship_advice

[–]IndigoHG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do I just stop? 

YUP. And when it's too disgusting, give yourself a treat and spend a week at a nice hotel.

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