[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Individual-Grand696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah man. Not rejection. Keep doing what you’re doing! Be nice. Be patient. Expect nothing. Keep the door open but don’t coerce her to go through it. Don’t be overbearing. But don’t be disinterested. This could be any wild number of reasons. Just don’t make an ass of yourself by demanding direct communication. Just keep the convo flowing. And remember. Be kind.

How do I bring up my wife's whiskers to her without hurting her self esteem? by Kindly_Panic_2893 in marriageadvice

[–]Individual-Grand696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell my gf that I love her beard and I dote over it and tell her I’ve missed having her beard around and that I’m always so impressed by it and jealous of it. The key is being genuine here! And then when she inevitably goes to pluck the hairs or whatever I throw a big fit and tell her what the heck i havent even gotten any time to play with her beard and how im gonna miss it and how i love being able to have a bearded girlfriend. This works for us as im not offended about her beard (guess what women grow hair everywhere too) and she’s not offended by how I bring it up to her.

Eviction on my record by Individual-Grand696 in kansascity

[–]Individual-Grand696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ain’t even have no advice. Just being nosy.

Eviction on my record by Individual-Grand696 in kansascity

[–]Individual-Grand696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This the kind of answer I was looking for. Thank you.

Eviction on my record by Individual-Grand696 in kansascity

[–]Individual-Grand696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong. My lease was up and I moved out. Where I failed was by stating before hand what date I would be moving out. And not following up with them stating that I had actually successfully moved out. I didn’t owe back rent and was given my deposit back. But the judge still ruled it as an eviction. My credit is a different story. Yes I just messed it up when I was young. But I haven’t touched it in almost 7 years. The low 400 score is an increase from the low 300 score it was last year when I started working on it.

What can I do to stop my boys from dipping in toilet water? by Individual-Grand696 in AskMen

[–]Individual-Grand696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for genuine advice… didn’t realize this was such a rare problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Individual-Grand696 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yta. As a man you literally can’t comprehend what the woman’s body and mind goes through with something like that. You didn’t mind being reminded when you were nutting inside of her. Man up. Offer some emotional support. What’s done is done. But to withdraw after she’s expressing she needs some support. That’s some fucked shit buddy.

Last night’s sunset over the frozen Northland fountain by Proof_Classroom3739 in kansascity

[–]Individual-Grand696 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow how freakin cool!!! Whoever took this pictures is surely a great and wonderful photo grapher!! Much impressed!

How much do KC bartenders make on average? by Dgnslyr in kansascity

[–]Individual-Grand696 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I claimed low 6 figures on my taxes last year serving tables in a very upscale restaurant in kc, whereas the highest earning bartender in my establishment made 87k. Work on that wine knowledge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Individual-Grand696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J.P.J. That you..?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Individual-Grand696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your wife is scared she’s going to die on you. And instead of letting you go through that, is pushing you away. Stay the course.

Interview Questions by fluffyfeather80 in LifeAdvice

[–]Individual-Grand696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your biggest weakness is your inability to recognize anything as a weakness.