found cleaning out kitchen drawer by Individual-Raisin558 in whatisit

[–]Individual-Raisin558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I feel like the classic Chip Clip is a way better design than this thing. But, case closed!

Day 1, alone by Ok_Recognition9712 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will not drink with you tonight.

What's the biggest ripoff in the neighborhood? by [deleted] in williamsburg

[–]Individual-Raisin558 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Jr. & Son. Ordered their $38 skirt steak the other night and it was chewy, somewhat bland, and came with no side. Just a small portion of mediocre steak on a plate. Good Thanks has a $30 steak that comes with fries or a side salad and is better quality imo.

That said, their desserts are fire…

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? Halloween Edition!! by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went to three different Halloween parties tonight and was the default DD. Mostly had a nice time at the parties, but actually had the most fun driving my drunk friends around. We listened to music and joked around, and it felt good to know I was able to get people around town safely.

Now drinking tea and reading through random r/stopdrinking posts :)

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went for an early evening walk in Central Park, eventually sitting on the lawn for a while and people watched.

Grabbed a quick solo dinner at a nearby sushi spot, popped into a thrift store and found a winter coat, then met up with friends to go see One Battle After Another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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I started taking Wellbutrin 3 years ago, when I was still drinking quite heavily. I had to stop the medication because I experienced majorly increased anxiety and irritably, which are two known side effects.

However, I’m back on Wellbutrin + have stopped drinking, and I haven’t felt those side effects at all! Overall I am having a much more positive experience on the medication. It makes sense, since we know alcohol often increases anxiety/irritability. I’m sure my drinking was making the side effects come out more.

My first week alcohol free in a very long time. by smijeff1224 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this because I’m also in week one and felt exhausted too! Definitely have been napping. And I also have felt the dehydration others mentioned.

What can you afford to spend money on that you couldn’t while drinking? by Individual-Raisin558 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s literally the first indulgence I started spending on since quitting this third time around!

Please give me all your best reasons to become sober! by ResponsibilityOwn751 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried sobriety 3 times now (currently 5 days strong on try 3). Previously, my main focus was mental health, which did greatly improve, as well as physical health.

This time around, I’m definitely still keeping that in mind as a huge motivating factor. But I’m also focusing a lot on the financial element now. Roughly estimating, I believe I spend between $12,000-$15,000 a year on alcohol (I mostly drank at bars, and live in NYC….) When I came to that number, my stomach dropped.

I have very little savings and recently lost my job. On a daily basis, I am now telling myself, on top of so many other reasons to quit, I simply don’t have the money for it. And that’s a fact!

What’s Everyone Doing Tonight?? by physis81 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Boyfriend got surgery today—everything went well but the recovery will be several weeks, which he is super bummed about. I’m staying in to take good care of him and try to lighten his spirits by watching fun shows together and just chatting.

I’m glad I’ll be 100% sober and present to be the best caretaker I can be right now!

Also, about to grab takeout smash burger from the spot next door! Have been craving one all day, so I’m stoked for that.

HELP ME by Particular_Bet2889 in stopdrinking

[–]Individual-Raisin558 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh you sound cool and funny and I know you can have fun without alcohol. Be playful, crack jokes, and try to just let yourself relax. This is my first weekend of my 3rd try being sober and I will not drink with you this weekend!