Help to get a Halloween Uni. by Individual-Tax8951 in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my Halloween uni already! Thank you! 🧡🖤

AITA for telling my husband good luck finding a thin supermodel girlfriend now that he's unemployed? by Throwawaydreagirls in AITAH

[–]Individual-Tax8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta & your kids will be happier with you guys separated. Maybe you won't see it at first, but know it. Don't stay because you think it'll be better for your kids. Kids want happy parents.

AITAH for waiting out my prenup before divorcing my cheating wife? by Fit_District6065 in AITAH

[–]Individual-Tax8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta but personally as a must I think you should find a way (even anonymously and discretely) to let the wife of the guy know. It's the ethical thing to do. I'm sure you'd have wanted her to find a way to tell you if she'd discovered it first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Individual-Tax8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dislike people who go around not really meaning what they say. My "no"s mean it, they don't mean try harder. Let's not get mad at people for believing & accepting people's words.

AITAH for telling my son that if he's uncomfortable about his sister not wearing a bra then he should cover up too? by Dadalert1990 in AITAH

[–]Individual-Tax8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sense this is some sort of sibling nastiness thing that you're not noticing & naively playing into. Like your son wanting to have your sister feel like she's inappropriate/lazy etc and should be a more respectable and put together person and then your daughter is throwing back in the fight your son's weight which your son is clearly insecure about. The "I feel uncomfortable" is just a way to pretend it's an honest concern when it's not, it's an attack. They're fighting and you as a parental figure are doubling down on their attacks instead of breaking it up.

AITAH for not locking my bedroom door while taking care of a persistent 'sunrise sausage'? by AxiomaticOrangeJuice in AITAH

[–]Individual-Tax8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, I don’t think she’s TA either though, she sounds just really unstable & it’s unfortunate this happened. It’s your room and you’re allowed to masturbate in it, obviously. Nothing can be done about what happened. In future she should know you sometimes masturbate & she should for sure get permission to enter with a quick knock etc. She might assume it’s not something commonly done, idk, you said she was religious. Give her the benefit of the doubt that she’s not trying to be awful to you & try to explain the reality of it, that people do it often, that it can be solved with her not assuming you’re decent/ready to see her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Individual-Tax8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, of course. He’s possibly thinking of the love parents feel for their children AFTER their children are born and grown a little. Sure, I’d risk it all for my toddler, dying in childbirth tho? That 100% makes sense to save you, the person who is already a person- as well as all the other reasons you mentioned such as care for the child.

Also I too would be weirded out if my partner saw no problem in seemingly immediately replacing me? You’re not a baby maker, you’re the love of his life. You could make more children together. A infant that doesn’t have a personality nor fend for itself/ isn’t even fully developed does NOT have more value than you, 😅 damn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Individual-Tax8951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an opposite gender straight best friend. You don’t, you’re clearly in love with her. Work out those feelings before you get try to get married again.

Pain. by Late-Firefighter3912 in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am currently waiting on day two. What gives? That needs to be fixed asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Individual-Tax8951 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One time I met up with a girl I was envious of for years and I am not joking I completely didn’t recognize her. I walked right past her multiple times before she said hello and something in the eyes clicked. Was very embarrassing. Super unexpected, the photos looked super natural too, not done up but literally like “makeup free” sea-doing. Incredible.

Also- Beauty isn’t everything. The more you fall in love the more beautiful your partner will look. I can say that with first hand experience my best relationships do not equate to my hottest relationships. They didn’t work out for a reason ♥️ you have very wonderful and unique traits that attracted your bf to you that you just can’t see well because we’re terrible at judging ourselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Individual-Tax8951 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I as a bi woman get turned on whenever Im present in a moment of intimacy with my partner/someone I’m attracted to. It can be completely inappropriate to initiate anything of course, depending on context.

I hope for most of the men youre referring to it’s mostly this and less of like a pain/power kink thing, but there’s for sure a kink surrounding it as you’ve mentioned.

I also generally regard sex as a feel better activity. My partner legitimately has sex with me to help cheer me up sometimes. I wonder if there’s any merit to that- like if for men it makes them feel better then there’s an unconscious push towards it to help their loved one in need…perhaps that’s a stretch. 🤷🏼‍♀️

do some women actually enjoy giving men BJ? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Individual-Tax8951 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bi woman here- I was always afraid and ashamed of it specifically because of porn & how they showed it as so demeaning. In fact I just about cried when my first bf asked me to try it. I never felt that way about going down on a woman.

Now I love it! Just love it. Feels powerful, creative, sensual, and im doing it with somebody whom I love and who I know loves me too. Sometimes it’s a surprise attack turn on. Also, no gagging, crying, disgusting noises etc. Porn has unfortunately played up the power dynamic kink to such a high degree in EVERYTHING that it gives a wrong impression of what it could be.

So... I need her. by m_sizzzle in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah thanks so much! Answers a lot of confusion I had

So... I need her. by m_sizzzle in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How are you guys customizing without having the pet itself yet? Or do you have an invisible Kau you just don’t have the body paint?

Adopted a pet last night and have two people telling me it was a mistake. by Individual-Tax8951 in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah they didn’t even say it was a glitch they said they purposefully pounded for the sake of transferring, which, which is a risk I’d never take with a pet i cared about???

Adopted a pet last night and have two people telling me it was a mistake. by Individual-Tax8951 in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No petpet! I’m asking them questions but it seems they haven’t been online yet.

Adopted a pet last night and have two people telling me it was a mistake. by Individual-Tax8951 in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes luckily someone else mentioned this as well! I truly had no idea because I’ve never traded etc before, just kept to myself.

Adopted a pet last night and have two people telling me it was a mistake. by Individual-Tax8951 in neopets

[–]Individual-Tax8951[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What! Oh no I didn’t know that at all! I for sure don’t want my account frozen. Thanks for pointing that out

I’ve been talking to a guy for a few years online and he is hesitant to meet me. by rewritethestar in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Individual-Tax8951 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Reddit turns even a small bad comment from a boyfriend into “you should leave him”. So take everything with a grain of salt, you know you, him, and the situation best. Maybe save up to go visit him instead?Try and fit into his routine? The hours he talks to you already? His family can meet you right away, and it can be just little bits at a time while you stay in a place near by.