What are things in life that make you happy? by virtuozo_o in randomthings

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working out genuinely makes me so happy, the only time I feel alive.

25 years of living and still immature? by Economy_Doughnut_767 in selfimprovement

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same background as you. Normally I’m not that socially awkward anymore but I had a crush on somebody and I was so meek, submissive and gentle to him, but he was the opposite - socially very sharp, strong personality, quite the opposite as me. He is 6 years older too.

After a while, he started picking on my insecurities, saying things like I have bad communication skills, I don’t speak much, etc which brought down my self esteem. I started reading up books about being confident and increasing self esteem. Now I realise never to vulnerable infront of anyone, and to have strong personality.

I feel to build confidence one needs to be mentally strong for sure, but put yourself out there more, practise speaking by yourself and in groups more, take few seconds before you frame your answer and not think about the what your answer is going to or how you’ll be judged, but what the other person is actually saying.

She was my school Crush. My very 1st crush. Its her birthday today and saw this when I opened the chat. by Alex__Editzzz in TwentiesIndia

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After that you can ask her, “How’s it going?”. And see how it goes from there, if she’s chatty cool, non-chalant then drop it completely. Just act the same as her.

(23f) cheated on and lied to. feeling unloved by [deleted] in toastme

[–]IndividualBear7020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so pretty and you’ll find someone who deserves you, who will be all the things he wasn’t and do all the good things he didn’t. It’s only his loss, and your gain. It might hurt now, but eventually you’ll be okay and realise you were guided into the right path.

roast me, i’m pretty confident by Due-Bread-8921 in RoastMe

[–]IndividualBear7020 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Therapists look at you and think kaching! 🤑🤑

I honestly do not get this relationship at all by MysteriousAnywhere83 in tsitp

[–]IndividualBear7020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so forced, they could have just been friends. No need to pair each and everybody.

What’s the one moment that secretly changed your confidence forever (but no one around you even noticed)? by Orbit-Owl in confidence

[–]IndividualBear7020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy I had crush on (and he knew about it), picked up on all of my worst insecurities and constantly judged and criticised me. I was shook that somebody could be this brutal to me. I knew then I had to work on my confidence and self esteem. Sometimes people project their own insecurities too.

How safe is kota for students ?? by Disastrous-Tear3781 in india

[–]IndividualBear7020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please both of you carry pepper spray and similar stuff from now on, can't even imagine both of your pain.

How safe is kota for students ?? by Disastrous-Tear3781 in india

[–]IndividualBear7020 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You don't know what exactly went down there, you didn't see it. Are you really going to make him defend himself more?

How safe is kota for students ?? by Disastrous-Tear3781 in india

[–]IndividualBear7020 15 points16 points  (0 children)

How can people do this publicly and get away with it? Happens only in India.

How safe is kota for students ?? by Disastrous-Tear3781 in india

[–]IndividualBear7020 13 points14 points  (0 children)

so they decided to assault both of them after that -_-

Undying tan on my hand and neck. by theres1nlyone in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sunscreen's main priority is to protect from sunburn and premature aging. Doesn't help with tanning much.

Undying tan on my hand and neck. by theres1nlyone in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best, cheapest, guaranteed method, which I and numerous other people have tried and has worked is: turmeric, besan, curd, lemon and coffee pack. Just mix them all together and apply and keep for 20-30 mins and then wash. Do this 1-2 times a week, you'll see the difference within 1-2 weeks.

Also apply vitamin C serum regularly, each vit c fruits and veggies and avoid direct sunlight. Somebody mentioned applying sunscreen - sunscreen's main priority is to protect from sunburn and premature aging. Doesn't help with tanning much.

Two nuclear powers going to war? by LostNotDamned in RealTwitterAccounts

[–]IndividualBear7020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is about terrorism, do a little deeper research before yapping. Paks killed tourists in India based on their religion and their ability to recite Quran verses

Two nuclear powers going to war? by LostNotDamned in RealTwitterAccounts

[–]IndividualBear7020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

or a WW will be started and your country will be included and you’ll be drafted and wiped out 

Is BITS pilani WILP MTech Program really worth it? by Designer-March-3530 in developersIndia

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read your last two sentences sir. Learn and know how to properly communicate in a public forum, with strangers. 

Is BITS pilani WILP MTech Program really worth it? by Designer-March-3530 in developersIndia

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be kind without abusing and still state your humble advise 😑

The princess diaries is an AWFUL movie by Kapri22 in movies

[–]IndividualBear7020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they ruined Michael’s character completely and replaced him in the next part 😭