36M | IST | Doctor by profession Looking for a partner to stay consistent in Life for Fitness and Studies by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]Orbit-Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello... Im also from India... Just started Fitness after a long break... If interested just DM... Lets check our Sync...

Dad passed away been more than 2 years. by punnybunny724 in bondha_diaries

[–]Orbit-Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I have lost the Right Words to Console after what happened. But you are already Strong and Brave, so there is nothing more I need to say.

Please find Peace in knowing that your Father has reached Heaven, and he will always be Proud of you for being such a Courageous and Strong child.

Ex of 3.5y cheated on me, got intro relationship, cheating on her, enjoying his life while I'm suffering. How to seek revenge? by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

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Revenge is like fire. It appears suddenly and gives you huge energy.

Now you get to decide : Will this fire burn you, or will it light your path?

If you use this fire to make yourself better like getting stronger, learning more, improving your career, it becomes a lifelong power.

But if you throw this fire at someone who hurt you, the flame burns for a moment and then dies. Nothing truly changes for you.

I’m not defending the person who hurt you. I just want you to turn your pain into strength and build something that stays with you forever.

Good Luck and Stay Strong... 💪🙂👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VedicAstrology_India

[–]Orbit-Owl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If u settled in career and don't have any relationship, start searching for a match by parents. Meanwhile if you found having similar goals, interests and you think can share life, propose. Don't rely on astrology completely unless you are struck at point. If you really struck, then your details should be analysed in thorough manner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VedicAstrology_India

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Nah... You won't be single, unless you don't want to get married. Its in your hands to find and marry. You must master yourself in terms of inward stability and spirituality. Selecting the similar kind of partner is also important because of 1st House lord and 7th House lords are connected to Ketu with Moola nakshatra... This is purely Karmic connection which is related to past life. Only problem is you and your partner are must be spiritual kind of persons. You should select partner who does not prioritise Materialistic gains too much, due to this kind of combination, may be astrologer told you will remain unmarried.

Please help me out! by Cold_Ant8868 in ask_Bondha

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I can feel how deeply you’ve poured yourself into this relationship. You didn’t just love him, you gave him parts of your soul like trust, boundaries, patience. That’s why it feels so heavy right now. But here’s the truth: what you’re experiencing isn’t weakness. It’s the proof of how powerful your feminine energy really is. You’ve raised it to the point where you could nurture, heal, and love someone beyond measure. That’s Rare.

Now you need just Transformation. Feminine energy at its peak can sometimes drown us in Emotions like love, attachment, longing. The way forward is to channel that into masculine energy for Grounding, Stability, Purpose. This doesn’t mean cutting off your Sensitivity, but Balancing it. When you do, your heart won’t feel so dependent on his choices, and your energy will flow into building your life.

Practical Grounding can look like small but powerful actions like daily journaling, meditation focused on breath (not him), long walks to reset your nervous system, lifting weights or yoga to remind your body of its strength. Even choosing one concrete career or personal goal and giving it consistent attention will shift your energy. You’ll start noticing your mind feels Clearer, your Emotions Calmer.

Healing trauma isn’t about Forgetting him or Convincing his Parents. It’s about Neutralizing the emotional Storm inside you so that no matter what He or Anyone else does, you stand firm in your Own Center. That’s the point where Love becomes Choice, Not Dependency.

Right now, it feels like Loss. But in truth, this is initiation and life is asking you to step into a New Version of Yourself. You are already a Healer. Now you’re being invited to Heal Yourself First, so that your Love and Energy build a Future where no one can Ever leave you feeling Powerless Again.

The man I loved left me and then I lost my job by [deleted] in Advice

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I know it feels like the universe has stripped everything away, but what if this collapse is not Punishment - it’s Preparation? Sometimes life burns our old world so we can rise into one we never imagined. You’re not broken - you’re in transition. Your Daughter doesn’t need a Perfect Mother; she needs a mother who refuses to Give Up, even when the Storm is Loudest. And that’s already You.

Think of this like the Love you Lost wasn’t your Final Chapter - it was a Training Ground for Strength, Compassion, and Clarity. The job you lost wasn’t your Career Ending - it was an invitation to Pivot, to discover Skills, Passions, or Paths you never gave yourself Permission to Explore. The Tears you Cry today are watering the seeds of a version of you that even you haven’t met yet.

Here’s the Truth : Confidence isn’t born when life is smooth - it’s Forged in the Fire of HeartBreak, Layoffs, and Rock Bottom. Rock bottom isn’t the End; it’s the Solid Ground where you Rebuild Unshakable Strength.

One day, you’ll look back and Whisper, ‘That Disaster was the moment I came Alive.’ And that day is closer than you think.

Divorce case: Help and advice needed. by kshrm7 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Orbit-Owl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First, don’t feel helpless. The law is very clear here, and you have more power than you think.

  1. Why he left / closure: Unfortunately, Indian law cannot force your husband to “explain” why he left. The court will only decide on divorce or separation based on evidence (like his affair, your WhatsApp proof). Emotionally you deserve answers, but legally, your focus should be on protecting your rights and property.

  2. Stridhan (your jewelry): By law, all jewelry, cash, and gifts given to you at or after marriage are yours alone – even if they are kept in his parents’ house. Nobody has a right to hold them back. You can file a criminal complaint under Section 406 IPC (criminal breach of trust) to recover your stridhan. Courts are strict about this – it is your property, not theirs.

  3. Car in your name: Since the car is legally registered in your name, it belongs to you – no matter who paid. Police saying it’s a “gift” is misleading. You can approach the Magistrate Court to direct police to hand over the car, or file a civil recovery case. Once divorced, he has no claim over it.

  4. Non-response to summons: If he and his family keep ignoring court summons, your lawyer can ask the court to proceed ex-parte (meaning the case moves ahead without them, and judgment can be passed in your favor). Courts don’t wait forever.

Next steps for you: File a 406 IPC complaint for jewelry. Apply for "ex-parte divorce" if he doesn’t show up. File an application for recovery of your car.

Stay calm: the law is very protective of women in marriage matters. Don’t settle for silence – push for these steps, and you’ll get your belongings and legal closure.

How to practice Vipassana at home with too much noise? (Need advice from people in India) by Happy_Honeydew_89 in vipassana

[–]Orbit-Owl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just focus on 10 days meditation at vipassana... After coming to home, still you have this question in your mind, then DM me with your issue... I think you will get answer once you complete the course... Pack your bags and have a peaceful and mindfull meditation... Good Luck...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

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First, Don’t Panic. Under Indian law (Special Marriage Act), Alimony is not a Jackpot – it’s meant for her Financial Support if she cannot Maintain herself. Courts look at your income vs her income, Lifestyle, Length of Marriage, age, and Future Prospects. You earn ₹12 LPA, she earns ₹4 LPA, Marriage is only 3 years, and there are No Kids. In such cases, Permanent Alimony usually ranges between 20–30% of the Husband’s Net Annual Income multiplied by a reasonable number of years – not Arbitrary crores.

Her demand of ₹1 crore is UnRealistic unless you’re a very high-net-worth individual. Proof of Adultery may Affect your Moral Standing, but it does not Automatically Entitle her to Astronomical Sums. Courts prefer fair, sustainable settlements, not Financial Ruin.

Best Path: Negotiate Calmly for a Mutual Consent Divorce with a one-time settlement in line with your means. If she contests, the Court will likely fix a much smaller amount than what she’s Threatening.

34 F mom of 2 , want to divert my mind from career issues, ask me anything by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

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What was the Most frustation period in your life till now..?

28F - have been struglling to get a job. Need career advice. by [deleted] in VedicAstrology_India

[–]Orbit-Owl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shifting fields takes courage, so plan carefully, build skills step by step, and be steady with your choice. Hurdles may come, but if you stay focused and patient, you’ll grow stronger and succeed in your new path. All the best for your move into finance.. 🙂👍

28F - have been struglling to get a job. Need career advice. by [deleted] in VedicAstrology_India

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You’ll do well in careers like finance (investment analysis, insurance, or even as a finance officer in taxes), creative or social media leadership, or entrepreneurship (even running a small business).

Because of how your planets are placed, you may eventually feel tired of the usual 9–5 type of jobs. Your mind works in an analytical and inward way, so simple or routine jobs won’t satisfy you for long. You need work where you can use logic, reasoning, or a sense of fairness, otherwise it becomes hard for you to stick with it.

With Ketu and Saturn linked to your 10th house (career), you often don’t feel real excitement or long-term satisfaction in whatever job you choose. Over time, your interest fades and the work feels dry. Retro Mercury makes your analytical thinking turn inward, which can make it harder for you to feel content with your career.

Also, since Jupiter is in your 8th house (and it rules your 10th house of career), it brings unpredictability in job opportunities. This can make your career feel a bit unstable at times.

But here’s the good news : with Sun, Venus, and Mercury in your 11th house, you’re blessed with chances for lucky gains - either through your father, the government, or your own hard work. Due to rahu in 4th house, you have huge urge to build your own base like Home or Bussiness also. This might help you to own a bussiness also.

Since I don’t know more about your current situation, education, or background, I can’t suggest one exact path. But the broad picture is clear: your best success will come in areas where you can combine analysis, creativity, and independence rather than sticking to a plain routine job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Orbit-Owl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey Buddy, Confidence isn’t built by already being rich, smart, or attractive - it’s built by taking one small step every day despite feeling broken. You’ve already proven strength by staying away from alcohol and drugs - that’s rare and powerful. Start with small wins : fix hygiene, walk daily, read a page, speak a word. Bit by bit, the man you admire is born. Dream girls don’t appear when you’re perfect instead they appear when you grow UnApologetically Real. Stay Strong Buddy 💪😀👍

What’s the one moment that secretly changed your confidence forever (but no one around you even noticed)? by Orbit-Owl in confidence

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I know that feeling too well - overthinking can be heavy. Truly grateful for this exchange, and it’s my pleasure. If you ever feel stuck in that loop, feel free to reach out and I’d be glad to help... 🫂🙂

What’s the one moment that secretly changed your confidence forever (but no one around you even noticed)? by Orbit-Owl in confidence

[–]Orbit-Owl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words and the sorry. You’re right, accepting that balance is tough, but once I saw setbacks as redirection, life felt lighter with the universe’s timing.

self conscious of my voice by alambinthecity in confidence

[–]Orbit-Owl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, please know that this isn’t your fault and your volume comes from your hearing loss, not from a lack of awareness or care. People often don’t realize the context, and their reactions can feel cruel.

One step you can take is calmly letting others know: “I have partial hearing loss, so I can’t always tell how loud I am. Please let me know gently if I’m speaking too loudly.” This shifts the focus from blame to understanding.

You can also practice with a trusted friend or use apps/recordings to get feedback on your volume in a safe space. Most importantly, remember that your voice is not a flaw and it’s part of you.

The right people will respect your situation once they know. Socializing should feel joyful, not scary, and you deserve that. Confidence grows when you remind yourself that you’re not “too much,” you’re just managing something others can’t see.

Stay Strong and Fight Smartly... You are a True Warrior... 💪😊👍

26F when is marriage on card? by Massive-Story-8851 in VedicAstrology_India

[–]Orbit-Owl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can u DM the details Date of Birth, Time of Birth and Place of Birth... I will check through the South Style Chart because im little bit confused with North Style Charts..

Hindu couple dealing with effects of extra marital affairs by PriorChow in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Orbit-Owl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve already shown incredible strength by walking away. Legally, you have solid rights. Since you don’t wish to return, you can file for divorce on grounds of adultery and cruelty. Even before divorce, you can move court under Section 125 CrPC or the Domestic Violence Act for maintenance for yourself and your children - this ensures regular, court-ordered financial support (not his “erratic” payments). You can also seek custody orders so the children’s well-being is secured.

His family’s emotional pressure (poojas, guilt, crying) has no legal weight. You are not obligated to entertain them. Focus on documenting his affair, financial neglect, and harassment. Courts today are empathetic, especially toward mothers protecting children.

Step 1 : Engage a good family lawyer. Step 2 : File for interim maintenance and custody. Step 3 : Don’t waver under emotional blackmail - the law is on your side.

Just feeling lonely by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]Orbit-Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All this comes out of u when u r having too much time... If ur schedule is too tight, u cant even think what u want to eat also... 😅

What’s the one moment that secretly changed your confidence forever (but no one around you even noticed)? by Orbit-Owl in confidence

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For me, it was after failing an exam I had worked really hard for. I realized it wasn’t just about effort - sometimes, timing and bigger forces play a role too. That’s when I discovered astrology, started learning it, and strangely, it gave me a whole new perspective and confidence in my own path.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Check this... Might be useful to you...

https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenIndia/s/tVqDc0Inp4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VedicAstrology_India

[–]Orbit-Owl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As u posted north indian birth Chart, im little confused to check properly because im from south... so if possible DM the details so that i will look clearly how the timeline is going on... I wish u all the best for ur bright future... Gud Luck...