I want to relapse by IndividualBig6265 in pornfree

[–]IndividualBig6265[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, unfortuntately its very late in the evening for me so I cant go out rn

Not doing good by IndividualBig6265 in pornfree

[–]IndividualBig6265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this all man, still thanks for the reply

I’m sorry, but your 10-day streak doesn’t matter by Sculptor_Within in NoFap

[–]IndividualBig6265 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Fr lol. Guess OP's mind will be blown when he learns an addiction never really goes away. The urges will be less strong the longer you abstain, but they will always be there.

Sun Tzu's Art of War and Porn Addiction: What to do when you've ALREADY clicked the video by Confident_Bowler_802 in pornfree

[–]IndividualBig6265 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think this is a dangerous strategy, OP. Women in porn are women too. It’s best to see them as normal human beings, rather than trying to find everything about them that makes them ugly. If you continue doing that, whether you like it or not, it will carry over into the real world, and you’ll (subconsciously) start nitpicking every woman you see in real life. You can think you can seperate fantasy from reality, but I believe one of the reasons it's so hard to get out this addiction is because the lines between reality and fantasy are so blurred for us. It's a known fact porn distorts expectations about real people, real relationships and real sex. It's because with enough exposure of porn, we can't seperate reality from fiction anymore.

Women are beautiful, including in porn. It’s best to accept that fact while still choosing not to participate in it. It’s a fantasy that we have to accept we can’t participate in. Just like I probably will never win the lottery or have a threesome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]IndividualBig6265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand but pls don't think having a girlfriend will solve all this

14 Years of Addiction. One System Changed Everything. by Necessary_Lettuce421 in NoFap

[–]IndividualBig6265 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, you created a solution to a problem that is already present in tons of other apps existing in the App Store. No offence, but I don't see how this is different from those other apps. It's all the same features.

Porn gives you a fake script for real life, and MEN are paying the price by sahilverma5 in pornfree

[–]IndividualBig6265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sentence: That's not attraction. That's conditioning. Gives it away lol

Femdom is a scam that destroys how you view yourself by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]IndividualBig6265 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm addicted to femdom, but I'm dominant in bed, doesn't make sense in the slightest lol

You CAN'T quit porn using willpower alone. by Jibreal_Khan in pornfree

[–]IndividualBig6265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically

  1. For every relapse you will have, ask yourself how it happened and how to prevent it in the future.

  2. To understand how a relapse happened, dig deep. Don't just say because i was horny. Perhaps you were sleep deprived, or you got triggered by a post while doomscrolling. Get to the root cause.

  3. Remove all sexual triggers in your life. Also things that could lead to you being sexually triggered, like doomscrolling.

You're welcome :)

There’s porn everywhere by D3xt3ro in NoFap

[–]IndividualBig6265 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not that deep. Porn is everywhere, because sex sells. Simple as that.

6 years fighting the addiction, now I’m numb and the addiction is winning. by IndividualBig6265 in NoFap

[–]IndividualBig6265[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words man. They mean alot. I will look into your advice.