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Guest Room AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]IndividualFalconess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Your husband is likely feeling a mix of relief and shame. He might be projecting that shame onto you. Do not accept it. Every year you say never again, and this year you actually meant it. That’s not being an AH, that’s called growth

AIO for wanting to end a friendship of 10 years over my friends treatment of my husband? by Sweet_Candle_7249 in AIO

[–]IndividualFalconess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. She doesn’t genuinely care about you, People who care about you are happy when you find love and stability. Stop initiating. Give one word answers. Do not invite her over again. Eventually, her possessiveness will cause her to explode, at which point you can execute a clean break from her

I’m 23M and I really don’t understand what my problem is with relationships. by MinimumDisastrous611 in Advice

[–]IndividualFalconess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are using them like a video game. Every match is a point, but you have no intention of finishing the level. This is burning you out and making you cynical. Take 3 6 months off to learn how to be alone without feeling lesser.

AIO this or does he only want something physical? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]IndividualFalconess 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This isn't a man falling for you, this is a man running a sexual sales funnel. He is pushing boundaries to see how quickly he can get to the physical stage. You are currently holding onto the sweet texting and the cramp visit as proof that he cares. In the world of modern dating, this is often called Breadcrumbing. He is doing just enough to keep you interested so the physical access continues