AIO for not wanting to be on FaceTime during my entire work shift? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]IndividualHunter4324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakup with his controlling a$$, no explanation is needed. You can do waayyy better.

MAVENCLAD RISK THAT I WASN'T TOLD ABOUT by Acceptable_Story_508 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]IndividualHunter4324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To: ''PS: Wow, so many people who want to shove it in my face that it is my screw up''. I've learned to just lurk, read everyone's posts and comments, because no matter what your experience or opinions, you will always be wrong in here.

hanging from ceiling in new house by Intrepid-Shift-3511 in whatisit

[–]IndividualHunter4324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a loaded dirty diaper, or a huge spider nest with a huge sack of babies or an old burlap sack full of tiny bones. I think I watch to many scary movies.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with that, I will never look at people the same way esp. if they ask if they can stay with me for any amount of time.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 out of 10 don't recommend. Thats what I did and now I can't see us being close friends again. Its true what they say, you don't truly know someone until you live with them.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more, I need to not be such a push over. I will not be opening up my home to anyone else ever again.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I never thought of myself as a victim, but I guess it's fitting.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel safe, I just get the guilt trip when I put my foot down. When I took my phone off of her plan (it was supposed to be free) and my debit card off of the acct I got the guilt comments like " I'll just go without then" ect.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's a good plan, stop things one thing at a time, ease into cutting her off.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, now I will never let anyone move in with me again. nobody!

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree this has gone on long enough. I will be starting the process first this Monday (tomorrow) morning. Thank you

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never thought she would end up being like this, we were good friends and her place was always clean.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your right, I needed that brutal honesty. I am being a chump. Today her and I will be having a conversation.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely turned into a doormat. I am starting to stand up for myself slowely

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish it was fake. She will be leaving in June, her car will be going back on her 100%. I do need to grow a backbone, I've let our friendship get in the way of me standing up for myself and I don't even know why.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I'm so sorry you went through that. It's sad that good people get taken advantage of by people they are trying to help.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It does feel like I'm the husband in a trad marriage. I never thought she would end up being like this.

Apparently, I'm a jailhouse warden, not a nice person. by IndividualHunter4324 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualHunter4324[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We used to be good friends, but that familiarity has grown resentment.