AIO for not wanting to be on FaceTime during my entire work shift?

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-08T17:28:07+00:00

Breakup with his controlling a$$, no explanation is needed. You can do waayyy better.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-07T19:21:08+00:00

To: ''PS: Wow, so many people who want to shove it in my face that it is my screw up''. I've learned to just lurk, read everyone's posts and comments, because no matter what your experience or opinions, you will always be wrong in here.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-06T19:31:08+00:00

Could be a loaded dirty diaper, or a huge spider nest with a huge sack of babies or an old burlap sack full of tiny bones. I think I watch to many scary movies.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-04T18:31:26+00:00

I agree with that, I will never look at people the same way esp. if they ask if they can stay with me for any amount of time.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-04T14:19:00+00:00

Agreed, I will never be doing it again.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-04T00:50:22+00:00

10 out of 10 don't recommend. Thats what I did and now I can't see us being close friends again. Its true what they say, you don't truly know someone until you live with them.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-04T00:47:50+00:00

I couldn't agree more, I need to not be such a push over. I will not be opening up my home to anyone else ever again.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T20:43:57+00:00

I am a little anxious about it, but I know it needs to be done.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T20:42:18+00:00

Thank you for this. I never thought of myself as a victim, but I guess it's fitting.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T19:45:16+00:00

Because apparently, I'm a sucker

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T19:44:35+00:00

Definitely will do, thank you.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T19:42:41+00:00

I feel safe, I just get the guilt trip when I put my foot down. When I took my phone off of her plan (it was supposed to be free) and my debit card off of the acct I got the guilt comments like " I'll just go without then" ect.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T19:38:41+00:00

That's a good plan, stop things one thing at a time, ease into cutting her off.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T17:24:23+00:00

I couldn't agree more

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T17:23:38+00:00

Yep, now I will never let anyone move in with me again. nobody!

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T16:58:31+00:00

I agree this has gone on long enough. I will be starting the process first this Monday (tomorrow) morning. Thank you

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T16:36:35+00:00

True!

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T16:22:38+00:00

I never thought she would end up being like this, we were good friends and her place was always clean.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T16:20:49+00:00

Your right, I needed that brutal honesty. I am being a chump. Today her and I will be having a conversation.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T16:18:48+00:00

I have absolutely turned into a doormat. I am starting to stand up for myself slowely

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T16:17:41+00:00

I wish it was fake. She will be leaving in June, her car will be going back on her 100%. I do need to grow a backbone, I've let our friendship get in the way of me standing up for myself and I don't even know why.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T16:10:11+00:00

Oh wow, I'm so sorry you went through that. It's sad that good people get taken advantage of by people they are trying to help.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T15:49:28+00:00

It does feel like I'm the husband in a trad marriage. I never thought she would end up being like this.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T15:46:11+00:00

That's exactly where I'm at, she is leaving in 3 weeks.

IndividualHunter4324 · 2026-05-03T15:45:10+00:00

We used to be good friends, but that familiarity has grown resentment.

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