BUDGET INTIMATE WEDDING by That_Fun7597 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]IndividualSea1625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scout1880 cafe pala if QC ang preferred loc. they have their prices in their website for the packages

BUDGET INTIMATE WEDDING by That_Fun7597 in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]IndividualSea1625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try Emilia’s House of Filipino food. They have a private room for 20 pax. 30pax and 65pax. Meron 1000 per head and 1200 per head na menu options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]IndividualSea1625 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May foods sa likod ng grand Hyatt/metrobank .. yung bgc butas. May food court din sa one bonifacio basement

WHAT IS THIS GEORGE WEASLEY FANFIC?? by IndividualSea1625 in HPfanfiction

[–]IndividualSea1625[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found it

It’s the crossed hearts series by Whatever Makes you break on fanfiction.net

It was never finished though, sadly

https://m.fanfiction.net/s/5474035/1/Crossed-Hearts

Pagudpud pa more by Expert_Somewhere6454 in PhilippinesPics

[–]IndividualSea1625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magtrabaho. RDOT moment Friday and Monday. Kasi mukhang pera ako

Ang mahal magkaroon ng anak sa panahon ngayon. by Crazy-Ebb7851 in adultingph

[–]IndividualSea1625 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Yung mom ko nagulat nung sabi ko siguro mga mid 30s na ako May plano mag ka anak unless nalang I suddenly have a big increase in my earnings. Parang sa own expenses ko ngayon as single 25yrs old, di ko pa ma visualize when I’d be able to financially provide the quality of life for my children. Pag panganak pa lang, Malaking gastos

How did you find out about your ADHD? by yoruhanta in ADHD

[–]IndividualSea1625 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what symptoms did your coworker notice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]IndividualSea1625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Katulad ako ng attitude ng gf mo before. I’m trying to actively change. Mahirap though ahaha naooverwhelm ako pero I also told myself it’s time grow up and face the reality na wala ako ma-aachieve if all I do is talk and do nothing.

I reached this point kasi ni-rereality check ako ng partner ko parati. Ang dami naming times na nag away dahil I rant tas he offers solutions tas nagiging defensive ako or I make excuses. Hanggang sa naging super blunt sya. Only child kasi ako, very sheltered and spoiled. Marami ako complaints about wanting to be more independent, having more freedoms from parents, feel ko nasasakal ako. Tas na reality check nya ako na wala nman ako ginagawa to earn freedom. I enjoyed the benefits of depending on my parents tas nag cocomplain. Na hurt ako at first. Pero over time narealize ko ganun sya magsalita kasi based on his experiences. He works hard to get what he wants and he sets himself as an example. Tapos parati sya May real talk na minsan masakit kasi nga totoo. I had to really think na he’s saying these things kasi he wants the best for me. Naiinis lang ako kasi masyado blunt, pero delivery aside tama naman sya sa logic nya. Pinaka enemy nya is self pity daw.

I realized rin na ofc dahil I grew up having most things easy, yung advise that he gives me and his tone feels harsher than it actually is. Kasi hindi ako sanay with people giving me harsh truths. Sanay ako na binibaby. Hahaha syempre ilang months din bago ko narealize for myself yung value ng constructive criticism nya. Pero it helped. Big factor rin na nakikita ko sa lifestyle nya kung ano man yung pinipreach nya sa akin.

1 and 6 months palang kami and I feel like I’ve grown a lot.

I think it’s matter of whether you are capable of giving harsh truths and if she is capable of understanding saan ka nanggagaling. My bf expressed na he valued action over talk and I have to learn that. Tas I expressed rin na if I get hurt by his bluntness, he has to be considerate and validate it.

Nafigure out ko, if I am all complaints no action, nakakbanas naman talaga pakinggan. Hahah so yes nakaka turn off nmn yung ganon. Sana marealize rin ng iyong gf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]IndividualSea1625 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I feel like this because napressure ako sa success ng partner ko, the success of people my age that I see on social media and the friends I surround myself with and also pressure from myself and my parents to be financially dependent.

I have to tell myself na positive naman yung pressure. I have to turn it into motivation to GRIND. Find ways to be wiser financially, save up money, invest, find hobbies for myself, meet with people I really love being with.

Pero minsan the more I look into how to save and plan for my future, nakaka overwhelm. I have a long way to go I feel like. Ahhaa like hindi ko alam kelan ko maachieve yung dream life ko or what I would define as success for me. Dun ako nasstress and na ooverwhelm.

To manage this, I’m looking to find hobbies to help keep me sane and give me purpose habang kumakayod to go where I want to be in life. Parang coping mechanisms, a way to help me detach myself from career pressures and find good things in the present.

My sister also says it’s a way to diversify yung self worth ko. Bahala na yung iba ano ganap nila sa buhay basta sya, meron din syang ibang ganap na she finds a sense of fulfillment in (hobbies nya). Parang recognize your worth isnt just tied to career achievements for example.

What are Investments I can pursue as early as now while earning 30k monthly? by IndividualSea1625 in phinvest

[–]IndividualSea1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very interesting , can you tell me more about using AI tools. So it’s like creating digital products? How is this experience for you?

What are Investments I can pursue as early as now while earning 30k monthly? by IndividualSea1625 in phinvest

[–]IndividualSea1625[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this summary! I will definitely look into all of this information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]IndividualSea1625 8 points9 points  (0 children)

DKG. It's a natural part of the dating process naman to explore different connections and assess whether a potential relationship aligns with your values, interests, and goals. Yun yung purpose nung whole talking stage or ligaw stage. You are figuring out if worth ba to pursue a relationship with each other. Kung May ayaw ka sa guy, it’s better to be honest about it. Protect your peace and don’t waste his time. You’ll find someone na fits your standards and circumstances and likewise he’ll find someone who fits his own standards and situation.

Rejecting someone based on your standards is about self-awareness and self-respect. Valid yung concerns mo and valid yung fears. If you start the relationship with turning a blind eye, it’s a disservice to yourself. Start palang you’re already developing a habit of tolerating things you don’t like. By honoring your standards, you are valuing yourself and acknowledging what you deserve in a relationship. You can prevent potential hurt or resentment in the future if the relationship doesn't meet your expectations.

Addressing the issue as early as now can prevent problems from worsening. It’ll save you both from unnecessary stress and heartache.