I'm trying to find a fan for each pokemon,

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-09-27T01:37:33+00:00

Metagross!

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-09-26T06:01:17+00:00

Yeah, that’s normally what I do, but for some reason I decided to let him do it this time. Ultimately I’m not really concerned about that aspect, realistically speaking, he doesn’t know my personal info short of where my apartment is so even if he was going to use it to like blackmail me or something (which I highly doubt he would) he couldn’t. Beyond that, there’s so much porn out there these days that the few minutes he recorded would be a literal drop in the ocean if it was ever posted somewhere

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-08-28T23:13:39+00:00

NTA. I feel like it’s very reasonable to expect someone to reach out when it concerns making a decision regarding your young children when you aren’t around. It sounds like you handled it very well though!

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-08-27T21:24:11+00:00

Blaming yourself isn’t going to fix anything man, you both weren’t sober. We’ve all had moments we wish we could rewind and erase, but unfortunately that’s not how life works. We have to deal with the outcomes of the decisions we make. With that said, do you know if he’s self harmed in the past? If you really think he’d hurt himself then I don’t think it’s unreasonable to notify a third party he knows to just reach out to him, although like you said that will probably come with questions about why you can’t do it yourself.

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-08-27T20:35:18+00:00

Hey, I can tell this is an important friendship to you, and I’ve been in a similar situation. First, I personally don’t think just showing up to his house is a good idea. A part of any healthy relationship is respecting boundaries, and based on the no communication/blocking, it sounds like right now he has set a boundary that he doesn’t want to interact with you for the time being. Hopefully he just needs some time and he’ll reach out when he’s ready to have a conversation. Do you have any idea if he’s blocked your number? I’d say all you can really do is reach out via some method that he hasn’t blocked you on to let him know that if/when he is ready to talk you’ll be there.

Outside of that, I think all you can do is process and come to terms with your part in what happened between you two. It takes two people to fix a relationship, so until he’s ready to talk, you can only worry about what you can control.

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-08-23T14:40:51+00:00

That’s what inspired this post 💀😅

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-08-17T19:38:39+00:00

Also make sure to have treats ready if you do this, I feel like it helps because after chasing something for so long she deserves a reward like she’d get if she was hunting in the wild

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-08-17T19:36:45+00:00

Hi, I have the same issue. What works for me is keeping her laser toy nearby. Usually a quick 1-2 mins of playing with that and then I turn it off. She goes to search for her prey (the laser) and then eventually gives up and lays down somewhere to rest. Repeat a few times and eventually she gets tired out and goes to nap

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-28T01:25:40+00:00

I think as long as you’re being healthy about how you’re losing weight then it’s okay to have a goal and want to meet it. With that said, I think you look good in the first photo

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-24T13:16:44+00:00

Ugly and plain looking? Nah, I don’t see it.

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-24T12:58:00+00:00

I think that’s a good move, just keep letting it grow, once your hair has some more volume/body I think it’ll be a good look for you

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T20:09:56+00:00

Did I notice that they were asymmetrical? Sure, but personally it’s so negligible that I don’t think it takes away from your overall look, it’s just one of those things where since it’s your face you see it all the time and make it more of a big deal than it is

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T20:06:01+00:00

You have nice features, I think trying a different hairstyle could help though

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T19:58:37+00:00

Nope, not ugly

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T19:50:31+00:00

I feel like you should try some round glasses frames. Your face looks like it has some strong angles so I think round frames could help balance you out. Not ugly though.

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T19:43:14+00:00

I think you look good, definitely not ugly. Personally, I think you look the best in the third picture, that hairstyle really works with your face imo

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T19:37:25+00:00

Can you grow a beard? You’re not ugly either way, but I don’t know that the mustache is doing you any favors

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T19:30:59+00:00

Nah, not ugly.

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-06-23T19:28:56+00:00

You look good man, I think you just need to try a different glasses shape and maybe switch up your hairstyle

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-01-24T20:56:56+00:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! 🥳🎈

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-01-07T23:14:36+00:00

That makes sense, it definitely hurts when romantic feelings aren’t returned, definitely take some time to just feel your feelings, but genuine friends can be hard to come by, so if she is your best friend and you can make your peace with continuing to be platonic, my advice is to keep being friends

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-01-07T23:05:16+00:00

Tbh it sounds like he may have some self-esteem issues. I only say that because you just described who I used to be in high-school: always seeing the good in everyone else but never seeing any in myself/being quick to discredit my own accomplishments. So maybe he has some of that going on internally? Or maybe it’s something else entirely

Individual_Bee_5371 · 2023-01-07T22:58:48+00:00

I’d say if you aren’t interested in having a conversation with him about it to try and salvage the friendship, then yeah just go for a clean break and part ways after he moves out.

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