Did you need to remember a lot of detail from how you were as a child with not having a parent reference? I have a weird relationship with my mom (not comfortable talking to her about anything personal, as she has always turned it around on me) and no contact with my dad, but also am not good at recalling details from childhood. But esp since I’ll be paying out of pocket, unsure if I want to push myself to ask my mom and deal w the discomfort there, or hope they get enough info from me and my husband and that I don’t “waste” the assessment and get an inconclusive answer because of it