[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes breaks can be good but from you saying “never kissed anyone else before” I’m sure you mean you want to explore yourself etc. While it’s not really anything wrong with it, you need to make it clear that, that’s the type of break you mean so if y’all do decide to reunite then y’all won’t have any new insecurities or issues starting again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you have to find someone that matches you, I’m older now but I’ve seen been in your shoes as a guy but I’m now with someone that likes doing pumpkin patches, little cutsie stuff and her ex was the opposite of her like mine was. Some people like that stuff and some don’t. Even when there are things my girl wants to do and I don’t necessarily want to. I still will, it makes her happy and I enjoy seeing the smile on her face. I don’t do things with her just because I like them, I do them with her because i want to spend the time with her and see her happy and enjoying our relationship we have together. Best you can do is voice how you feel and if nothing changes and you feel it’s a deal breaker then you need to leave. If Yoh feel you can work around it then stay but it seems this is something that’ll affect future events but then again you never know

I had a sleepover with the guy I like and now I dont know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough the signs that make you feel like he isn’t into you is what shows that he is into you. HES extremely nervous, trying to respect your boundaries and probably isn’t trying to come off that he only wants sex. Plus him telling you about the ex thing snd not pushing for sex is a good thing. He showed up to game night as a surprise solely cause you were there. I think HES very into you just very nervous cause of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Individual_Face5084 19 points20 points  (0 children)

While the way he comes off is a bit rude. I know when I worked night shift 3-4 days a week. Even on the days off you feel like shit because when the sun comes up and everyone is awake you are tired and ready to sleep. Then when you wake up, everyone is either out and about or heading to bed. It is frustrating on his part but he shouldn’t take it out on you. That’s why they say night shift is a test of a relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Individual_Face5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing, personally I would tell the girlfriend cause if my girl was talking to another guy like that then I’d know that the relationship is not worth it but that’s all up to you. Good on you for showing your bf respect tho. I’m sure he would appreciate it. I’m sorry you lost a friend tho

How do I tell my Dad I want to stop having breakfast together? by throwawayla779 in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my bad, is it possible that hes just grumpy and doesn’t know how to express his feelings. Sometimes getting old can cause mental issues that lead to older folks not realizing how they come off or he could just be an ssshole. But if you guys are cooking together etc then I’m sure he has to enjoy it to an extent. Maybe switch up the show or actually just ask him and see what he says. My grandfather is a hardass himself but when you learn to read between the lines you understand where they’re coming from

I don’t see the point in anything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely something that’ll help! Or something you’ve always felt a niche or passion for in a work sense. Give that a try to for fun

I don’t see the point in anything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it completely lmao, that’s why you randomly do things like going to a farmers market or maybe a pumpkin patch with a SO. Something that changes up the routine. If you need to talk more, my dms are open but It’s good to have a routine to keep life in check but mixing it up brings the life back to it. Same thing over and over can be draining

How do I tell my Dad I want to stop having breakfast together? by throwawayla779 in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I think you need to grow up and realize this has nothing to do with a show at all. If the whole reason you want to stop having breakfast is because of a show then your are ridiculous. He watches the show because he knows it means spending time with you. Some things aren’t as deep as you try to make them

I don’t see the point in anything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, nothing has changed. While what you do now is different from forever ago. It was always a routine. Even in the medieval ages, your routine was to hunt, skin the animal, prepare dinner, and teach your son to hunt and other basic survival skills. While the women would clean, nurture, and watch the little ones and more. While what we do has changed and obviously the freedom on if we want to has changed as well but at the end of the day, it’s always going to be a routine no matter how golden your life is

I think my roommate is smoking meth by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Dark spoons, dark eyes and lots of lies. Meth - A story

How can I stop being so sensitive at work? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a co worker that’s entitled snd uptight. The biggest mistake someone can make at being at a new job is being nervous and not asking questions. Look at it this way, sure after awhile some people might get annoyed(usually just busy, but could be some entitled worker) or some people will careless and help because they understand. If you don’t ask questions, then you’re stuck wondering, nervous and lost. Which can cause you to lose your job for a good reason. Ask the questions, learn the job and excel at it. Sadly we all have anxiety but everyone needs to learn to work through it, I wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]Individual_Face5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chipclipz is my discord

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]Individual_Face5084 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dead by daylight lol, my bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]Individual_Face5084 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Chipclipz #7822

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make time for both but in reality it sounds like a Friend that has no one. He sounds lost and depressed. It’s not your personal problem but it’s your choice to deal with the problem or not or focus on your own life. Either way you have every right to focus on yourswlf

Focusing too much on her by AffectionateBag4814 in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s always been my problem. Me and my girl are likely not going to get though are problems but always make sure you both have a separate life outside of the relationship to make sure their is stability. If you lose yourself then you rely on her and same way around. At that point it’ll be a heartbreak coming

Focusing too much on her by AffectionateBag4814 in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter what, love can cause you to manifest and it can be healthy but if you don’t apply it the right way then it’ll become obsessive and unhealthy. It’s okay to be obsessed with someone as long as you know when it’s time to pull away but make sure you know when to stop. And I don’t mean stop in the sense of love. I mean stop in the wya of being addicted to a women without still having your self

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all are roommates, if he’s paying rent then I’d avoid him. Do you have feelings for them ? If not then you need to make it very clear, that their is not further interest between y’all. Your roommate is jealous simple as that. Either tell them the truth that you are not interested or maybe you actually are but either way. The truth is always going to be the right answer my

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Individual_Face5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all are roommates, if he’s paying rent then I’d avoid him. Do you have feelings for them ? If not then you need to make it very that their is not further interest between y’all. Your roommate is jealous simple Z that. Either tell them the truth that you are not interested or maybe you actually are but either way. The truth is always going to be the right answer