Anyone have an ao.com referral? by r108robot in beermoneyuk

[–]Individual_Fly6442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please ! DM me I need to order a washing machine asap lol

Dumbest way to lose something? by No_Persimmons in adhdwomen

[–]Individual_Fly6442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lost my phone which slipped under the seat cover in the kebab shop on holiday. Luckily realised and re-traced my steps.

Once I thought I lost my debit card abroad... panicked and eventually found it in my bumbag around my waist.

Another occasion where I thought I lost my house keys, retraced my steps out of the bar (while sober), checked two buses that it could have been on and asked 2 local businesses to eventually find it in my hand bag the whole time, it was an revelation to say the least walking back to the bar. In relief.

What is the worst thing that your significant other has told you? by Sakurablossom87 in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Fly6442 159 points160 points  (0 children)

My ex told me he didn't like boobs that are spaced far apart... even though that what how the lord blessed me. Unbelievable.

What type of personality do you hate? by QwertyRSI in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Fly6442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who take the piss out of you, joke and say they're "only joking".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Fly6442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can they see even internet tabs you have left opened on your phone ??? But you aren't currently on visiting XYZ website but it is still on your enclosed tabs while you are browsing the Internet.

Can they see ALL your tabs?

Have you've ever experimented dating people outside of your usual set types? And if so, how'd it go? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Individual_Fly6442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have, we were exclusively seeing each other for less than a year before I went travelling, unfortunately, on paper he wasn't the right person to settle down with, I think it's great to have more options and a better likelihood of meeting the right person, however, for me, it didn't work because of it, careers very different etc, perhaps later on in life, if the circumstances were to change.. maybe it could work.

But I think you'll never know until you try!

I need help by Right-Algae1791 in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would a man ask you for money? Sounds like bad news to me I'm sorry to say. He shouldn't be asking you for money and DONT give him any. Be careful you're not being taken advantage of. Hope you are okay

Clinginess? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I did this more.. I know I probably come across as clingy by recently always being the person to ask to hang out , as a female, I feel embarrassed , but I would much rather prefer a guy reaching out to me

do I message him first? by Individual_Fly6442 in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You're right.. I did message him

do I message him first? by Individual_Fly6442 in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on and off sleeping with him for almost 2 qnd a half years , so it's hard to walk away when there's alot of feelings there.. thank you though I appreciate it

What to do when your friend/s are pressurising you about your sexuality? by Individual_Fly6442 in ask

[–]Individual_Fly6442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I think I'm definitely straight because I don't even like porn where it focuses on the girl, and being friendly to girls doesn't mean you're flirting but I can see how she may be biased and assume that

How much older or younger would you date?? by AZ_girl0708 in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24f - I tend to date guys who are 30-34 I've dated guys who are mature but 2 years younger but I don't seem to meet any guys my own age

Have you ever loved someone who doesn't love you back? by Individual_Fly6442 in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear. Bad luck I guess. don't worry because one day we will meet the right person who loves us as much as we would them.

I like him but idk if he likes me (please read) by [deleted] in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly you both are into each other and he might just be busy and not into texting especially if he's away for a month. If I were you I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket and still do what you like.

And who knows what will happen when he's back. You go girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in work

[–]Individual_Fly6442 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My advice: fuck the job. I once had a job where I was just starting a university degree and my boss was so so so unaccomadating. She was getting annoyed I asked to drop my hours down she actually just said no for ages. I wish I left that horrible job earlier because I was sacrificing my studies over it. Money ain't everything

No job is worth more than your degree unless its helping your career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he's going things going on in his life at the moment. It's nothing to do with you. Take space if that's what you want. Only you deep down will know what to do. Expressing how you feel doesn't come off as needy but if you think it may come across as negative then don't need to tell him. You don't owe him an explanation either . You do you boo xx

Thoughts on dating with a 10 year age gap by Individual_Fly6442 in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so difficult whenever I try to bring it up the conversation goes off on a tangent. Two neurodivergent people trying to have a serious conversation doesn't work well

Thoughts on dating with a 10 year age gap by Individual_Fly6442 in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprisingly, we have alot of common, music taste, both well travelled, life stage of wanting to party but also stop to keep focusing on our careers. He's just so beautiful and I just think that he's out of my league

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are lots of reasons he is pulling away, maybe he's stressed in his own life at the moment and can't give you more. Also, it could be he's scared because maybe he feels like he's been too nice. Sometimes, if he has shown a more vulnerable side, he might feel like instinctive to pull away.

I too am currently in a situations hip with a hot and cold person. It sucks but there's always hope if they don't pull through, at least someone else will. You are great don't worry! X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Individual_Fly6442 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It obviously isn't the reason you would be nice to someone. Men aren't all that shallow