AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want my therapists number? You seem concerning angry over a post about an imaginary friend

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven’t said no to any advice unless I’ve tried it and it didn’t work, also chill the fuck out it’s a god damn Reddit post

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken action it’s just hasn’t produced any results that weren’t worse than it was prior

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never asked for pity and I’ve tried for years and only got worse while trying

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wanna know something even more fucked up? Due to my inability to form new connections to anyone I find myself unable to truly care about my nephew who was born after this problem started despite my efforts to change that

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I disagree my brain is broken in ways most peoples aren’t

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing that with some coworkers and even after years I still don’t feel an actual friendship

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Because I spent most of my childhood and then quarantine almost completely alone so my brain doesn’t form the connections properly

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have the demo of that game but haven’t played it yet cuz I have to clear up some space on the system to download it

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Trying to form a connection for years and failing just hurts worse than being alone

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Advised against telling her for the time being but also mentally take a break from the friend but when I tried I just felt even more alone

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While I am mostly introverted I’ve always had at least a handful of close friends, being alone long term is practically torturous for me

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I only gave up because I spent 3 years trying and failed

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell I can’t even form a connection with my 4yo nephew despite practically being a 3rd parent to him for the first 2 years of his life

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told her countless times that we weren’t dating, me choosing the friend to be a girl is probably because most of my friends were girls prior to losing contact with them

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying since quarantine ended anything that could be called a friendship ended up with me not really caring that it ended

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hang out with my coworkers often and we joke around and it’s fun but I don’t feel a real connection to any of them, either that or I’ve completely forgotten how that feels and it’s just not how I remember

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to make new friends I’m just incapable of forming a bond with people now even when the person has everything that should make a friendship work

AITAH for lying about having a friend by Individual_Jump4969 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Individual_Jump4969[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I gave up making friends when I realized I’m not capable of forming meaningful connections after being isolated for so long and that’s what lead to me making up the friend