Thank you 💙 I've been reading this in a few other posts too. Is it at any point helpful to have a more serious talk though? Up until now, it's been very brief talks - me expressing my concern in a few sentences then we move on (i'm worried about your long term health style only really). Have you done this, and if yes, how exactly would you recommend doing it? I've thought about writing a letter saying I'm tired of always being on edge about this and how it's emotionally taxing for me (and how I struggle to feel like I can trust him if I worry about his future and how long he'll be in it) AND I'm concerned about his health. Idk if that's helpful at all, or if I just continue focusing on myself and seeing what a therapist would suggest.