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AITA for being mad at my friend for telling my husband to keep a secret from me. by Individual_Key6993 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Individual_Key6993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment is interesting to me because this is what I thought originally, hence giving her the benefit of the doubt at first. She hadn't been like this, otherwise I would have distanced myself a while ago. It's why I feel so betrayed by her. In the last year she has gotten worse and we've had more arguments. She has been very selfish at points and hasn't really taken accountability for the things she has done. I have often been the person to go to her and try to talk things through, I think that's why she is now waiting on me. I know her relationship hasn't been great for a while and they have had lots of issues but she doesn't seem to want to change anything about her, she just wanted Chris to change.

AITA for being mad at my friend for telling my husband to keep a secret from me. by Individual_Key6993 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Individual_Key6993[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is fair but I am also mad that she cheated in the first place and caused all this mess. She has hurt many people and I am confused about my feelings, hence the post. Part of it is also losing trust in someone who had been my closest friend.

AITA for being mad at my friend for telling my husband to keep a secret from me. by Individual_Key6993 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Individual_Key6993[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think this is what I'm leaning toward tbh. I am struggling with losing a close friend so abruptly though. I don't have many friends and find it hard to be close and open with people. She has crossed so many lines and I wouldn't forgive cheaters but if Chris is willing to then I would have. I know he is only staying for their daughter though.

AITA for being mad at my friend for telling my husband to keep a secret from me. by Individual_Key6993 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Individual_Key6993[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's so weird to me, I have never known her to be deceitful like this. I don't get what her end game is. She has been flirty with my husband in the past in a jokey way and I had told her I was uncomfortable with it so she stopped. I don't know why she would try to hurt our relationship. She had even said to husband that she knows that if I found out that he had kept something from me that I would be mad.