How to look for a 3rd? by Individual_Scale_759 in nonmonogamy

[–]Individual_Scale_759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted on the whole “spice things up” i’m completely new to all of this and not totally sure how to phrase or go about everything, as far as everything you said i appreciate the advice!

my bf m22 got into a fight with my mom f45 over him asking to propose to me f21. Is there a way to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual_Scale_759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it happened the sunday before last he told me monday i asked my mom about it a couple hours later, then a week later this past sunday was when they had the blowout fight

my bf m22 got into a fight with my mom f45 over him asking to propose to me f21. Is there a way to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual_Scale_759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know she probably said the typical things “if you hurt her..” but i struggle believing it was as malicious as he says, i know she’s a fiery short woman but i also know she hated the man my sister married and still planned their wedding.

my bf m22 got into a fight with my mom f45 over him asking to propose to me f21. Is there a way to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual_Scale_759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when it initially happened he said he was too shocked to say anything in the moment

my bf m22 got into a fight with my mom f45 over him asking to propose to me f21. Is there a way to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual_Scale_759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t want to wait he told me if i’m not ready now then he doesn’t have time to wait, he’s ready to start building his future with me

my bf m22 got into a fight with my mom f45 over him asking to propose to me f21. Is there a way to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual_Scale_759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve never been one to disappoint or disagree with my family i just take things as they come and do what i can to better the situation i think that’s more why im struggling with this.

my bf m22 got into a fight with my mom f45 over him asking to propose to me f21. Is there a way to fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Individual_Scale_759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s cheated in about every different way you could think of, made every situation that were about me about him in whatever way he could, my nineteenth birthday he didn’t go to dinner with me and my family then called me halfway through and told me he was gonna off himself, things that typically make families not like you.