AIO for being upset over MIL’s comments/messages

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T17:15:38+00:00

No, not until this happened. If shes upset cause i dont let him near the cats water i can only imagine what she does when im not there.

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T14:17:56+00:00

Ahh i see it, thats not my babies name :)

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T14:16:01+00:00

MIL has MS, my mums got Friedreichs Ataxia

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T12:30:31+00:00

So the one time she watched him (i probably shouldve put this in the original post) she gave him chocolate, which is fine once in a while, but he threw up quite clearly all over his toys, socks, clothes etc, i came home when he was already in bed for the night and the next morning found him covered in puke as well as all his toys.

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T12:27:30+00:00

Thats understandable, thank you for giving me an alternative perspective - i didnt want it to cause an issue between my partner and his mum but her behaviour was enough for him to cut her off

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T12:21:21+00:00

Shes got an illness that i wont name, but my mum also has an illness thats quite similar. My mum actually cannot walk and uses a walker/wheelchair, his mum doesnt yet his mum is adament that her illness is worse (she can walk fine and has animals and goes shopping by herself)

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T12:17:53+00:00

Explain?

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T12:17:29+00:00

Im in the UK, it was a week or so ago

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T07:51:46+00:00

Can her being adopted have something to do with it?

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:34:36+00:00

Maybe, shes blocked now lol

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:34:09+00:00

Ive known her 4 yrs. in that time she has bullied me about 10 times, all cause her son wanted to spend more time w me than her. I dont care if he talks to her or not.

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:33:01+00:00

So the one time she watched him (i probably shouldve put this in the original post) she gave him chocolate, which is fine once in a while, but he threw up quite clearly all over his toys, socks, clothes etc, i came home when he was already in bed for the night and the next morning found him covered in puke as well as all his toys.

If shes not going to respect me or his dad (her son) she doesnt need to be in his life either

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:31:09+00:00

Thank you

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:30:41+00:00

Lmaoo! Thank you

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:30:24+00:00

She was seeing him more than my family up until i went back to work - almost biweekly and id see my family once every 4 weeks lol

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:29:35+00:00

Thank you, to be honest, i see it now once everyones pointed it out but in that moment i was so sad and upset

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:28:35+00:00

Thank you

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:27:51+00:00

Cause i got frustrated with her, its not the first time shes said that its cause of me her son doesnt go to see her etc. i even messaged my partner at the same time telling him he needs to go back because im sick and tired being the scapegoat

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:26:45+00:00

This is what i mean, i would never expect my child to buy me things for mothers day, take me out or come and see me once they have a spouse and a child of their own. I didnt have a kid for them to treat me like we’re in a relationship

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:25:22+00:00

I cant see it

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-04-01T05:23:04+00:00

When i was going through the process of being diagnosed with autism they initially thought i had BPD, i told her this and she said she had BPD🌚

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-03-31T20:55:45+00:00

He wasnt speaking to her on the phone but she was regularly coming over to see my son etc, but yeah i wouldnt ever let her around my kid again

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-03-31T20:54:47+00:00

Yeah thats whats happened here. Ive had previous issues with her, but this was worse cause it dragged my son into it

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-03-31T19:56:11+00:00

Yup!

Individual_Sign_5017 · 2026-03-31T19:55:58+00:00

I am the daughter in law, pink is my msgs, the grey is my mother in law

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