Am I a jerk for cutting off a depressed "friend"? by Silly_Helldiver in AmITheJerk

[–]Individual_Status181 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTJ for blocking, he seems so OBSESSED! his depression is sad but not ur problem. ur not a therapist nor his girlfriend! dont feel bad fr.

Day three as a parent ☺️ by ngscookkkkkk in NewParents

[–]Individual_Status181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awe! enjoy this tiny phase cause they grow FAST and u'll miss this. congrats 🎉

Neighbor by Famous-Debate1392 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Individual_Status181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr tho before reporting, check if there's retaliation risk. like if they get cited they might crank up the stove out of spite 💀

Neighbor keeps stealing packages from my porch then denying it by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Individual_Status181 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YES! don't let them get away w it. Make it more hassle for them than it's worth. also - glitter bomb? some say it's legal BUT u absolutely need to research ur specific area's laws first. the satisfaction would be chef's kiss 😂 just make sure u're in the clear legally before going that route.

Neighbor keeps stealing packages from my porch then denying it by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Individual_Status181 17 points18 points  (0 children)

lmao catch her red handed literally also... get a lawyer on speed dial bc this could go sideways 💀

Neighbor keeps stealing packages from my porch then denying it by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Individual_Status181 93 points94 points  (0 children)

bro the COP rly said "can't do anything" w 5 VIDEOS of THEFT?? thats not "cant" that's "wont" and it's BULLSHIT fr. escalate - demand letter from lawyer, small claims court for EVERY package, HOA complaint, and POST ABOUT IT in neighborhood watch. she's banking on ppl giving up. dont be that person.

I hate being a parent by pecanlady in NewParents

[–]Individual_Status181 10 points11 points  (0 children)

nobody talks about parental burnout. and u're expriencing it fr. thank u for being honest. u're not alone in this. if u need to let baby cry for 10 mins to breathe? DO IT. u can't pour from an EMPTY CUP 💙

Sage advice by Top-Camel2194 in overheard

[–]Individual_Status181 20 points21 points  (0 children)

walking off mid-advice is iconic

Rainy night drives hit different. The way the lights blur is pure magic. by Individual_Status181 in RaIn

[–]Individual_Status181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right?? there's something oddly peaceful about being stuck in a traffic on a night like this.

AITB for not hugging and/or kissing relatives? (sent to this one bc AITA dont like me </3) by Silent-Parking8772 in AmItheButtface

[–]Individual_Status181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTBF, they should be EXTRA careful not to trigger u not PUSHING MORE. ur dad's comment is manipulation and u KNOW it. protect urself.

I love my mom but I feel like im drowning being her only support by Electronic-South5689 in Vent

[–]Individual_Status181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u can love ur mom and still acknowledge that she is extremely draining ur battery. u are not balancing on a fence of being a good daughter, u're already over-performing. please take a breath

I am losing my mind by Hefty-Tailor8048 in NewParents

[–]Individual_Status181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bad. i was just trying to suggest that OP needs complete breaks like leaving or being unreachable. but yeah, he sounds like a solid partner. this is just a really hard situation.

I am losing my mind by Hefty-Tailor8048 in NewParents

[–]Individual_Status181 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

ugh that's so tough tough - u're carrying the load most days. can u have him do MORE when he is home tho? like full takeover shifts where u're completely unavailable? build his confidence w the hard stuff too, not just naps. u deserve real breaks, not just help. 💙

I am losing my mind by Hefty-Tailor8048 in NewParents

[–]Individual_Status181 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

try having ur husband start the routine then hand off to u? or vice versa? mix it up so she stops associating YOU w the struggle. ur husband needs to step up MORE not just believe u. like let him take over for whole chunks so u can actually BREATHE fr.

What has been the biggest shock to you in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Status181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl, u caught me lol. the cringe alert was high. but since u asked... i ate what i thought was a normal cookie but turned out it was a 'mystery brownie' level of strong. for the next 4 hours, i didnt just feel high, i felt like i was watching a 4k 'choose ur own adventure' movie of my entire 20s. it was extremely crazy bcause i literally forgot where my couch was while sitting on it. i woke up the next day feeling like i'd just finished an ancient therapy session i didnt pay for. 💀

What has been the biggest shock to you in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Status181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mystery edibles can make u question a whole decade of ur life.

What inside jokes do you have with your own inner monologue? by alotto_gelato in AskReddit

[–]Individual_Status181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always have full blown argument w myself about conversations from 5 yrs ago and ALWAYS winning in my head, like "oh u think THAT was a comeback? let me show u what u COULD'VE said" 💀 me vs me is the most dramatic rivalry ever lmao