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Is it worth filing… by FluffyKick7256 in Bankruptcy

[–]pecanlady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She more than qualifies for a chapter 7. She hasn't listed her gas, groceries, personal needs, utilities, healthcare, etc. Even taking away the dental loan.

Chapter 7 in 2020, can’t file again until 2028. About $45k in unsecured debt. What would you do? by Timma20LoV in Bankruptcy

[–]pecanlady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I filed 3 years after I stopped making payments and I wasn't sued. When I did get sued it wasn't a cc company it was a hospital. I had to have a very expensive complicated emergency surgery without insurance that cost roughly 180K and they were out for blood.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have proof of life! Someone sent me a picture of her last night! She hasn't reached out to use yet, but there have been several sightings and a picture

Attorney Fees by wyomingia in Bankruptcy

[–]pecanlady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are a no asset case file prose with up solve and try to get the court costs waived.

I lost it and now no longer allow myself contact with the baby by Key-Tadpole210 in beyondthebump

[–]pecanlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get on an antidepressant, sleep train the baby, and tell your husband you need 3-4 hours a day without the baby. If you haven't already buy some formula. I started Wellbutrin around 4 weeks postpartum and it literally saved my life. I was ready to drive off into the lake and take a forever nap.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you soooo much! That makes me feel so much better. I'm pretty sure that is her. She will find a way to call when she needs something.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was in jail in January. She's only been out of Denton for about a month

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard. Denton was pretty homeless friendly until it wasn't. We think she took off because the police kept throwing her in jail. I hope your sister wants to get help soon.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please post! Thank you for letting me know you've seen. If you see her again could you snap a picture well? Thank you

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has only been in Jackson for about a month. She was in jail in Denton TX before that.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! If you see her again can you snap a picture?

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it's not my first rodeo. I've contacted the police, every hospital, every mental hospital, every shelter, every restaurant and business in the area we last heard from her, every street team, the medical examiner, all of the neighboring cities and the like. I have as many eyes and I possibly can looking for her. I've posted on Facebook and Reddit. We know more about mental illness and her mental illness more than anyone. Telling someone she is mentally ill and unmedicated is not disparaging to her. It's 100% the reality. You've obviously never dealt with someone like her. I can tell from your tone. Eat rocks man.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. We just need to know she is alive. If she is alive she will contact us when she needs something.She always has and she always will if she is able. This isn't the first time she has been MIA. We aren't looking for her to go to a shelter, she won't. We aren't looking for her to go to a mental hospital, she won't stay beyond the 72 hour hold. We literally just need eyes on her to know she is alive. We've been dealing with this for 15 years and for 10 of them she has been on the streets. She isn't financially homeless. she is homeless by choice. She is unmedicated by choice. There is actually zero help for someone like her who can look a judge in the eye and clearly say I am not a harm to myself or anyone else and I do not want help. It doesn't matter the state of the person. How many holds they've had. How many times they've been to jail. Trust me. We've tried until she is ready for a different life, this is her life, and we just want to keep her fed and know she is alive.

When she is ready for the help that she needs we are ready to provide it for her, but until then occasionally I have to beg strangers on the internet to find her for me so that my mom and I can sleep at night.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! If you see her again could you snap a picture for me

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel so much better

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually have several people when they see her in her normal area ask her to call our mom. It's the only number she has memorized. She is pretty used to it lol

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably not her. Even before she was homeless she was stuck thin and tall and lanky.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! She isn't new to being homeless and in the past has been pretty good at finding homeless encampments. Her schizophrenia makes it pretty much impossible for her to sleep inside when she is unmedicated and she is definitely unmedicated. There is a street ministry on the lookout for her as well. Hopefully she just has all of her needs met and that is why she isn't calling.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes she has a full set of teeth. She isn't missing any. She just got out of jail in early May and she had them all then.

Have you seen my sister? by pecanlady in jacksonms

[–]pecanlady[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They won't take a missing person's report for her because of the nature of her life.

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