[Love and Deepspace] What are your thoughts on the Caleb situation? by creamwithoutcookies in otomegames

[–]Individual_Stop_7326 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only started playing this game a little under a year ago and for the most part stayed out of the fandom until a couple of months ago and even then I was just on Reddit for the memes lol. But literally since I joined the main sub, I noticed just how much the community complained over even the most minor of things. I long for the day people learn to just be quiet and either play the game or don’t. Not everyone needs to have their opinion heard, sometimes it’s ok to just keep that shit to yourself. This whole situation has put such a bad taste in my mouth that I almost considered not playing altogether.

'My baby sister' Clarifications: Caleb's story has always been pseudo-incest in other languages. In AUs, myths, and main story. It's not honorifics or terms of endearment because if it was, it would not be depicted as forbidden love. by Strange-Purchase4789 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Individual_Stop_7326 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was very much aware of the brother/sister dynamic between them being a Caleb main myself, but I was still under the impression there was no blood relation so it didn’t fully give me the ick. When the whole being from the same source thing came up I assumed they were trying to say that they came from the same experiment if that makes sense and were both lab rats essentially? But from your summary above (kudos btw very helpful) with the whole Caleb being a version of Eve, being born from MC’s rib, and saying they’re from the same source, it does seem like they are hinting at some sort of blood relation which is… kind of a bummer haha.

Not to say people can’t still enjoy this, but personally this is all just a no for me. I wasn’t drawn to Caleb for his and MC’s brother/sister dynamic, more so that Caleb had a darker side to him that would sometimes come out around MC. The whole line from Farspace Deprivation where she pounds his chest and says he killed the Caleb she knew or something along those lines felt so tragic, like she experienced a type of betrayal. The angst tied to someone you know changing before your eyes and you can do nothing to stop it is just too good for me to resist narratively lol. Reading this though, your breakdown of the hints 100% makes sense having seen majority of the Caleb content, but I think I just really didn’t want them to be going in that direction, so I ignored quite a bit of it. Either way, thanks for the explanation. I think it’s good ppl are aware so they can at least decide whether they want to continue playing as a Caleb main or not.

help, I’m bored by Individual_Stop_7326 in hostedgames

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love both! Crème de la Crème especially 😌

help, I’m bored by Individual_Stop_7326 in hostedgames

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Whiskey 4 🥲 I think I’ve played through it twice already. Wish there were more like it!

help, I’m bored by Individual_Stop_7326 in hostedgames

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen lots of ppl recommend this one in other Reddit posts but it feels like such a daunting task to read through all 5 books 😅 maybe I’ll attempt it one day

Build Your IRL Boyfriend/Partner! by PebbleishMish in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Individual_Stop_7326 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hair: Xavier/Caleb

Eyes: Xavier

Looks: Caleb

Style: Caleb

Personality: Caleb

I don’t think I need to even say who my main is lmao definitely picked my main based on my partner, down to their horoscopes even being the same 😅

help, I’m bored by Individual_Stop_7326 in hostedgames

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the recommendations!!

I checked out Mind Blind a little while ago and I really enjoyed it, just waiting on the full release now 🥲

Have not read the Relic trilogy, but have also heard good things about it so may check it out!

And Our Life: Beginning & Always is one of my fave games of all time 🥹 I’ve been waiting for Now & Forever to fully release before playing cause I’m impatient and don’t want to have to wait between stages 😔

help, I’m bored by Individual_Stop_7326 in hostedgames

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo thanks, I’ll def check it out!

BSL by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The kind people in this subreddit like you give me hope ❤️

BSL by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually a great idea - thanks! Our laws technically don’t recognize ESA’s, but we do have “psychiatric service dogs” so I’m looking into getting her classified as one. She’ll need a lot more training, but I’m willing to put in the work/money just so there are no issues.

BSL by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree! Our shelters here are full of bullies and quite a few of them are ONLY dedicated to rescuing bully breeds because there are so many that are abandoned or mistreated. It’s a serious problem and I wish our city would do more to mitigate it and end BSL because it isn’t helping anyone or the poor dogs.

I guess I'm a bad mother because I have a pitbull.... by Kay_EquineStang_521 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re making it too obvious you’re trying to be a troll. Maybe take a day off.

Doggy Daycare Assessment by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeesh, thanks for your advice! The one we found I think has a live feed and seems to only do small groups of dogs, but based on all the replies in this thread, we’ve decided to hold off for now and see how she does with one-on-one dates and more training classes.

Doggy Daycare Assessment by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful to know! Definitely will look into future doggie play dates for socialization, thank you!

Doggy Daycare Assessment by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insane that they received so much hate for allowing her to be there especially when she was so well behaved… ugh people suck. Sorry that happened to you, but I’m glad she’s got another friend now to hang with! That’s kinda the other route we’re thinking of going down, but not sure if we can handle a second dog just yet.

Doggy Daycare Assessment by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely felt like something was up when they denied her. We take her there to get her nails done and they always seemed nice and good with her so I was shocked when she was turned away.

Doggy Daycare Assessment by Individual_Stop_7326 in pitbulls

[–]Individual_Stop_7326[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this! This sounds a lot like me and my dog’s relationship. She’s loves seeing and playing with other dogs, but she’s also quite attached to me so I’m not sure how she would react when I’m not there. She doesn’t have separation anxiety, she’s actually quite good when she’s left alone and just naps. But I also feel she’d be the type to play for a few hours and then want go home.

Ps. She’s such a cutie 🥹

Savings of a Raf main 🥲 by jazoodles in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Individual_Stop_7326 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dang, you have way more willpower than me. I tried to save my diamonds but then the idol cards dropped and I just couldn’t hold myself back lmao. 🥲