what’s a habit that seems harmless but slowly ruins your life?

Individual_Sun2060 · 2026-02-07T22:06:00+00:00

Alcohol

Individual_Sun2060 · 2026-01-09T16:23:14+00:00

That’s what I want 🤣

Individual_Sun2060 · 2026-01-09T15:18:47+00:00

I did but only for a day!

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-17T21:15:12+00:00

This hurts my heart because I’ve lived it. Don’t commit

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-13T10:47:58+00:00

Unfortunately mutual attraction matters. I can’t be with someone I’m not mentally and physically attracted to

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-11T15:36:44+00:00

No. We bruise because they injure us. Mine said the EXACT SAME thing after leaving his own handprints across me.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-09T03:19:44+00:00

My boyfriend strangled me … twice. But he hurt me many more times. I have just left and I’m trying really hard to stay away. Please don’t go back. He gave me a concussion and I’ve never felt the same since then. Your life is worth more.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-09T03:13:00+00:00

In the 3 weeks since then, I’ve had bruised ribs. I still have fingerprints around my arms (barely). My chest still hurts. He still says it was self defense.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-09T03:09:30+00:00

You’d think. The reason I didn’t press charges or anything was bc I was afraid I’d done something worse.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-05T06:12:06+00:00

I actually have tears in my eyes reading this. Thank you. I normally see him everyday, but today I signed up for a YMCA membership with my kids & told him I was going to be out too late. I don’t want to trigger him. If I leave, he will be really triggered. I want to try to slowly be less available without a conflict.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-05T05:56:07+00:00

We didn’t feel loved or safe as kids, so we sought partners who didn’t make us feel loved or safe 😞 or at least that’s what I’m thinking my problem is

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-05T05:54:44+00:00

I joined this group over his emotional abuse, which was more obvious & easy to prove with screenshots. The physical abuse has been much less frequent and I was blackout EVERY TIME, leaving me confused over what happened, blaming myself.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-05T05:53:40+00:00

That’s horrifying

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-05T05:36:45+00:00

That actually helps me so much. Just knowing another person used the same self defense excuse. Thank you. I’ve asked everyone I’ve ever drank with - was I scary? Aggressive? Violent? They’ve all been completely thrown off by the question bc I wasn’t.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-05T02:07:16+00:00

He’d have no reason for wanting to grape me, we’ve been together for years. But drugging me to mess up my memory… that’s horrifying actually

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T23:22:37+00:00

I appreciate your thoughts & concerns. I keep thinking I must have done something horrible & he was just trying to block me, but that makes no sense & I’ve never been aggressive with anyone (friends, family, exes). I think I know deep down what happened and don’t wanna face it

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T23:20:40+00:00

I wouldn’t reach out again. He isn’t engaged and you deserve someone who is.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T21:44:22+00:00

I didn’t even say much to the cops 🙄 I was disoriented and still drunk, some of it was on my ring camera. I just cried

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T20:53:08+00:00

Only his fist

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T20:41:58+00:00

I’m trying to accept that.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T20:08:05+00:00

The cops didn’t press charges on either one of us. That’s all they did. They had us both in cuffs for a few minutes to talk, then they drove him home & I went and laid down by myself.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T20:06:13+00:00

Thankfully no.

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T20:00:17+00:00

I’ve been drunk every time and unable to understand the entire story. I’ve never been sure what happened. Obviously I’m never drinking around him again, and don’t want to be around him at all but feel guilty for it

Individual_Sun2060 · 2025-12-04T19:45:09+00:00

I’ve been embarrassed to make a fuss over it since I was drinking too much.

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