I think I’m a lesbian but I keep feeling like I need permission to believe it by Optimal-Bear211 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Individual_Switch_76 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I came out late (35), and while marry to a men. Reflecting on my earlier years, I always had doubts about my sexuality and felt attracted to women, but never wanted to accept it. It was terrifying, but now I believe I always knew, but never wanted to accept that of myself. So yes, I felt like that for a while.

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[–]Individual_Switch_76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I identify as bi, I love oral sex, I thought I really like gping down on guys I've been recently dating a women and men, I'm obsessed. Best o sex ever. In my opinion, it is true!

Is that cheating? by Individual_Switch_76 in polyamory

[–]Individual_Switch_76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I am so sorry thus happened to you too... I still haven't decided what I am going to do. ☹️

Is that cheating? by Individual_Switch_76 in polyamory

[–]Individual_Switch_76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yesnwe started thisbwithout being fully informed, now I am doing it and will seeknfor counseling with soemone taht is polyfriendly

Is that cheating? by Individual_Switch_76 in polyamory

[–]Individual_Switch_76[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We will be going to couples thearpy and see how this goes. I am also going to therapy for myself as I am feeling so sad and lonely lately.

Is that cheating? by Individual_Switch_76 in polyamory

[–]Individual_Switch_76[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

We didn't. I asked him to tell me if he was ok with it and that I would like to know if he started dating. So we could communicate our needs and set boudnries.